re: The Concept of Love?

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Cheer up. Typically the older women get the more independent they become. People realize they really need their own lives to be happy and can’t depend on other people for happiness. Relationships are great but you have to be happy with yourself first.
I’m only attracted to independent woman and it works well with two independent people.

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And that's probably another problem I have. I am 35 but I am still attracted to youth. I'm not saying I want to date some college girl but I mostly find myself attracted to women in their mid and late 20s, maybe 30 or 31. I'm not completely against dating a woman older than me but I'm just typically more attracted to women a few years younger than me. I know it's probably shallow in some ways.

In many ways I've never truly had that true innocent love that most people have had in their lives and I would love to experience that at least once in my life. That's the problem I've had with dating women in their 30s, there's not as much excitement or as much living in the moment. Many women are attached to their routines and I find there to be a sense of practicality about love. Sadly practicality might be good for women who have had their fun and are ready to settle down but where was my fun? I would like to have some of that carefree love before settling down.