re: Letting family stay with you

BIL stayed with us for a couple months while going through the twelve steps, he was homeless, he had no car or job so we also transported him everywhere. We eventually got him a bed in a sober house in town, he got a decent job he could walk to, he could walk to his AA meetings. We paid for the room, by the way.

He was doing great. For months, doing fantastic. But one day he woke up and said frick all this. Met a girl online and took off.

ETA, when he was staying with us, i wasnt allowed to drink in the house and that sucked. I still dont know why i agreed to it.