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re: My girlfriend tried to kill herself
Posted on 6/21/17 at 10:57 am to GeauxLSUGRL
Posted on 6/21/17 at 10:57 am to GeauxLSUGRL
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GeauxLSUGRL
you would have an interesting perspective
I would say he needs to respectfully and lovingly get out of relationship.
Whats your thoughts on long term viability and health happiness to him in this relationship
Posted on 6/21/17 at 11:55 am to thelawnwranglers
I'm uncertain on what he should do since I wasn't in HIS shoes. I was on the other side in rehab getting help. What's POSSIBLE is his gf will get cut off from friends and her boyfriend, which is him. I'm saying this because when someone tries to harm themselves they go through a program that's similar to AA or being addicted to drugs. It's STEPS we must complete. It's like being shut off from the world, which you are to an extent. I had no contact with anyone but my family. HOWEVER I was codependent on someone who hurt me. I had no option but to let him go entirely for my health and wellness. Since rehab I've been very independent. It took a while for my parents to trust I wouldn't hurt myself again so I lived with them for a while. It's going to take time for his gf to get over the state of mind she is currently in and will be in when she gets out. I wish I could contact her to let her know she will be okay. Or even help her when she gets out as she's adjusting.
Speaking to the boyfriend who posted this thread- I can't tell you where/what your relationship will be when she gets out. She is receiving the help and tools to better herself and possibly even your relationship. The steps I went through, which she most likely will go through as well, mentioned relationships. I'm uncertain how long y'all have been together or the seriousness of it, but for 6 months it's advised we concentrate on our own well-beings. I can't say this will happen, I'm just letting you know the possibility so you can better understand why she lets you go, if she does. It's not your fault. None of this is. And if she does choose to no longer date you, that's not your fault either. Please don't feel you're not worthy of her or that you did something because that could lead to making you depressed. I really hope I've helped you and anyone else going through this. If you have anymore questions let me know.
Btw to the pricks- no pics. Peace.
Speaking to the boyfriend who posted this thread- I can't tell you where/what your relationship will be when she gets out. She is receiving the help and tools to better herself and possibly even your relationship. The steps I went through, which she most likely will go through as well, mentioned relationships. I'm uncertain how long y'all have been together or the seriousness of it, but for 6 months it's advised we concentrate on our own well-beings. I can't say this will happen, I'm just letting you know the possibility so you can better understand why she lets you go, if she does. It's not your fault. None of this is. And if she does choose to no longer date you, that's not your fault either. Please don't feel you're not worthy of her or that you did something because that could lead to making you depressed. I really hope I've helped you and anyone else going through this. If you have anymore questions let me know.
Btw to the pricks- no pics. Peace.
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