re: Creative ways to encourage or deal with a SO who hasn't aged well?

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dn't want to have to actually hear my husband say "I've noticed you've gained a couple pounds". So I went to him first and said I was well aware I've gained weight and reminded him of everything that contributed to it so he didn't think I just got lazy. Also told him I'm working on losing it and would appreciate his support and encouragement.

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That sounds like a conversation to me, not groveling.

I don't know man. You tough guys see things differently than me I guess.