re: Living together before marriage

I don't know you IRL but, just from this thread alone, it's obvious you have some serious issues with insecurity. She probably does as well. When you say things like, accountability buddies, that's code for I have low self esteem issues and so does she. We need constant reinforcement from random people online and each other, to feel good about ourselves. Doesn't bode well for the future. How many times has she fricked another guy? I can guarantee she has. She is the exact kind of girl I look for in the bar. Superficial, potential daddy issues=easy lay. I just have to listen to find what it is you don't give to her. And give her that attention. She will tell me all about it. That's how she justifies sleeping with me.

So, this marriage has a very slim chance for success.