re: New York suggestions...

Murray's Bagels for a quick bagel. Well mostly cream cheese But so damn good.

Buddakan was probably one of my top 5 meals ever. That's only if you're ok with loud dark atmosphere. I loved it. Edamame Dumplings and don't skip dessert!!

Ippudo for Ramen!Another amazing atmosphere. Opens at 5 for dinner. I suggest getting there at 445ish to wait in line and get in first. Unless you're ok with going later and waiting.

Mercer Kitchen

Spitzers Corner for craft beer, drinks, and pretty good food

Beer Culture and Pony Bar for craft beer.

Big Gay Ice Cream
Doughnut Plant
And I can probably come up with more depending on other info from you