re: Anyone know people who choose to be miserable?

I understand. A distant friend of mine passed away in 2011, and to this day every time I see or talk to his mother she is in agony, she doesn't always show it but you can tell. She still does a lot to remember him and I don't blame her one bit. If that's her purpose in life right now, then so be it.

Also a guy I played football with some years back died on the field and his folks post pics of him on Facebook to this day, and once I again I don't blame them.