re: Relationship Advice. Girl problems brah.

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Well put, sherman

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I have some experience with this. A couple we were very close to 10 years ago had fidelity issues. My wife and I got dragged into it (That sucked). I remember telling the wife. "If you want this to work eventually you have to bury this thing and move on. If you can't, that's ok because it is hard. If you decide to go forward you have to let it go eventually". She agreed but never did. They eventually divorced. They both messed up. Him by fricking another woman. Her by never forgiving him and staying in the marriage.

I am pretty sure I would bail if I found my wife cheated on me and I would expect she to do the same. But if I did try to work through it, I would have to bury it. Harboring resentment and distrust is poison.