re: What would you invite a neighbor to do to hang out that doesn't involve alcohol?

Ask her if she will baby sit while you go out to get all the way turnt up. Say it just like that too.

It will tell you a lot about her and the situation.

If she says yes, she is a good person that you need to continue the process of be friending. She understands sometimes you need to crank the volume from 3- oh shite which lf those 3 guys got me pregnant

If she asks if you have a minute to tell you about the good word, she sounds like a good match for you since right bow you sound boring as frick.