re: Are you afraid of flying?

It's an illogical fear. Just admit it and leave it at that. Your "control" theory falls apart unless you're telling us you've never been on a bus or a passenger in a car (both far more dangerous)

It depends on your edginess level. A few drinks helps some people. Others think it will help but overdo it and end up sloppy drunk. If it's crippling, see a doctor.