re: Married men of the OT. Mothers Day

Take it from someone that had an adoption set up and fall through and waited 8 long years to have a kid. Don't get her anything that will remind her of it in the case it doesn't work out. This will be my wife's first mother's day and now I'm going all out. We still have some things we bought for what was our potential adopted son and until we got pregnant last year she qould pull thise things out and be depressed for a few days until I hid whatever it was so she couldn't easily find it.
Maybe buy a card or something but wait until you find out to give it to her or not.