re: What are women actually attracted to?

Besides the women who prioritize the following "attraction facilitators" to great fault?

Money
Power
Status
Looks
Physicality

Even IF you have all of the above, would you actually want a woman for whom ONLY those echelon traits matter far more than anything?

The woman you'd be looking for should consider all/many of following trait, MORE than willing to trade off on the above:

Confidence
Generosity (reciprocation)
Self-respect
Sense of Humor
Responsibility
Purpose
Compassion / Empathy
Discipline
Faith in God
Rationality
Assertiveness

(Not necessary in order of trait value)

Confidence (as already highly rated by TD posters) is #1 or rated highly.

All of these traits play into what is a Charisma Factor that transcends the Money-Status-Power-Physicality-Looks.

There is of course a formulaic balance blended from all of the above that women will consider that factor in as "mate material". YOU must help create that blend to your own "uniquely valuable formula."