re: Anyone Ever Divorce a BiPolar Spouse

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I don't know of anyone who has BPD and is not an absolute trainwreck

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low functioning borderlines are the ones like Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction who will go absolutely bonkers on you. they're much more obvious with their actions, but they can also be dangerous.

high functioning or "quiet" borderlines are much harder to spot, and even if you have suspicions, there's no real way of confirming in most cases. and until you figure out how they work, think, and act you will undoubtedly be pushed to the edge of your own sanity trying to understand what the frick is going on. and then even once you've got it somewhat figured out, you will still be driven to teh edge of your own sanity trying to manage them.