re: Did you live with your spouse before marriage? Would you recommend it?

Signed papers on a house only in my name

Proposed like 10 days later

She lived about a hour away and started staying over on weekends, then I was in a wreck and broke my femur a couple months later and couldn’t drive for like 6 or 8 weeks so that pretty much sped things up 3 or 4 months before the wedding.

All worked out fine.

Wouldn’t recommend breaking your femur. Kind of whatever on shacking up.