re: A friend of mine is getting disowned by some family members for divorcing wife that

I am not proud of it but when I dated when I was a young man, when I met the mother, if she was obese, it killed it for me. You have to be honest with yourself. I had a friend who married one of the finest girls in our school. After her second child, he got huge. She looked just like her mother. I blamed the guy for leaving her and still do. He had a blue print to work from. Some men would stick. If my wife had gotten huge after 4 children, I would still be together.