re: Tough career scenario... which choice would you make?

Pedal to the metal AND being remote seems tough for work life balance…the odds of generational wealth” from a startup is pretty small also. If you’re passionate/driven/risk taker in general then could be great for you, though

The fact that it’s not even a sure thing doesn’t seem worth it from a financial family stability point of view

Take Job A and then wait for a new “Job B” once the economy settles down. Or just burn the bridge and jump to job B in a few months (I’ve seen jobs lay people off a month or two in…no loyalty look out for you)