re: If homosexuals are “born that way”

Well, "susceptible" is one thing. Some people are more susceptible to being alcoholic, etc. I feel it's probably the same way with homos, but like with alcoholism, once you lean into it, you don't come out. Alcoholics don't stop being alcoholics, they quit drinking. I imagine you get a susceptible dude into a bad situation (or they jump in willingly) and you've got a big rainbow explosion. I tease gay people but I'm generally fine with them if they're not trying to recruit or be obnoxious or ham it up. I've had gay friends, gay employees, gay co-workers - no bad experiences. But the militant LGBT crowd can DIAF.