re: How does a family do it financially

Same here. We're a one income family of 6. Two older kids in public schools, 3 are homeschooled. We live within our means, try to keep only 1 car note at a time, limit eating out. Sam's and Costco are our friends. We realize that it is ok to not have everything we see or desire. When we do reward ourselves, it makes it that much more special. Also, spoil your children with love, not objects. It's all about prioritizing your spending.