People with experience traveling with multiple children ~2 years old

Not worth it. They're too young to enjoy much. It will be a nightmare for the parents. Put the money in an account and take a baller trip to Disney World when they are 5-ish.

We took our boys on long trips when they were 2 and 3 and 3 and 4 and it was more work than fun. Neither of them remember anything about our vacations during that period of their lives.

F that. I work hard to enjoy a vacation once a year without crying kids

We just do simple day or overnight local trips for the kids.


Big stuff for us. I'd wait until they at least get in school

Leave them with the in laws. The passengers on the plane with you will greatly appreciate it.

Seems like a consensus, and what I figured. Well probably do some short cabin weekend's and beach trips until they get older.

We have an 18 month old, and I refuse to take any lengthy trips with her, it's just too much to deal with to enjoy a vacation. We've only taken her down to San Diego once for a weekend (we live in LA). Her grandparents took care of her when we went to Boston and Washington DC.

the only vacation I could imagine that would be worth bringing a young child is something where you're sitting on a beach or pool all day long with direct access to the hotel room. Aside from that, no way you want to be sightseeing and moving about a city and constantly needing to stop for changing, feeding and naps.

Doesn't sound like a vacation to me. It sounds like torture.

Friend of ours was raised here in Louisiana. Has lived in NYC, LA, Las Vegas, London, etc. Met his Brazilian wife in London while they were both living there. Now, years later, they have a 3-year old who was born in London so she has tri-citizenship (US, England, Brazil). That kid has been all over in her 3 years on earth. They took her to Sri Lanka when she was an infant. She is so well-behaved and quite the good traveler.

If you aren't someone who travels much, I guess I could see the argument to not waste money while they're young.. but I think people starting kids off traveling from a young age is really cool.

It is either take them when they are really young, like <12 months, or wait until they are older.

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Also keep in mind you will need to haul around the baby gear, stroller and maybe a car seat.

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This is what broke us. We would go "camping" with our kids, and it looked like a freaking Everest expedition. Keep in mind, I've spent two weeks on trail with a backpack and food drops, so filling up the entirety of the bed of my Tundra for two nights of car "camping" felt insane. We weathered those years with some camping trips and yearly trips to the beach. Got in a trip to Idaho and some others as well.

My initial advice was to stick to the beach because it's easy. Even though we mainly did the beach (and those were most enjoyable) the fact that we attempted some of the other trips now makes us appreciate the ease of travel with 11 and 8 year olds. Just did 2 weeks in some remote parts of Costa Rica with them this summe, and it was awesome. Did Spring Break in Santa Fe, and it's amazing having your 8 year old wake you up before dawn ready to go mountain biking on some trails in the morning.

So while I do think some trips are more fun with that age than others,'I do subscribe to the idea of getting them traveling and used to the "chaos" of being off routine, having things go wrong and most importantly just enjoying the moment can be beneficial for later travel experiences. My kids are kind of game for anything and will sit down to a two hour dinner with no screens without complaint. We built that through travel.

On the other hand, we know people (rich) who would go to Italy for a month with their very young kids. They'd just plop their kids down with iPads at dinner, and not give a dam about looking like ugly Americans. We don't allow that shite.