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re: What's the point of open marriages?
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:05 am to ShortyRob
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:05 am to ShortyRob
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Well then. How on Earth would you even know?
Do you think that people who are in open marriages(or who swing, there's a difference ya know) run around with signs on their heads announcing it to everyone?
Go to a salon or barber shop in Zachary, you'll learn wuite quickly just jow common this is ig you listen to the background noise.
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Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:05 am to ShortyRob
You've posted pics of your wife before, she looks too old to get pregnant anyway
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:07 am to yellowfin
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You've posted pics of your wife before, she looks too old to get pregnant anyway
No need to go there just because we disagree with you.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:07 am to terd ferguson
quote:Actually, no.
That's all it really takes... once. You don't ever consider your wife having an "oops" moment
Here's why. The girl who forgets to take the pill two days and then gets back on but is only fooling around with hubby thinks, "no big deal".
If my wife were to forget for two days to take the pill, there would be ZERO playing!!! She doesn't want to get pregnant.
And, that's not the only BC being used.
As to some other girl, already addressed.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:09 am to bigpetedatiga
That it's natural to have sexual desires/attraction to other people besides your spouse.
Open marriages are not for me (I have a hard time picturing my wife with another man), but for some couples, it may be essential to their relationship.
Open marriages are not for me (I have a hard time picturing my wife with another man), but for some couples, it may be essential to their relationship.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:09 am to terd ferguson
quote:I know their names! LOL
So this is a no names kind of thing?
quote:Swingers are for the most part, HYPER careful.
What about diseases and shite?
I'd say the goings on at your local night club on Friday night create a SUBSTANTIALLY greater likelihood of STDs.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:11 am to yellowfin
quote:IF you've seen the ONE pic of my wife that I posted on here, it was from the back and she is 5'4", 115lbs and 30 years old in it(33 now)
You've posted pics of your wife before, she looks too old to get pregnant anyway
So, you're just being an arse.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:13 am to LordSaintly
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That it's natural to have sexual desires/attraction to other people besides your spouse.
Okay, but what does that have to do with monogamy?
These thing are in fact natural but how does that make the concept of monogamy any less realistic.
I can look at a woman and think that she is sexually desirable, without any real interest in having sex with her, because of my love and commitment to my wife.
Perhaps we are just looking at his statement in different ways. I personally took it to mean that he was saying that monogamy was unrealistic.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:18 am to finchmeister08
Whatever consenting adults want to do is cool, but the potential to pick up a disease would be an issue.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:20 am to chinhoyang
quote:Studies show that as many as 70% of spouses admitted to having cheated on their current spouse during their relationship.
Whatever consenting adults want to do is cool, but the potential to pick up a disease would be an issue.
And, I'm guessing in a great many of those cases, the secrecy meant that "protection" wasn't exactly high on the list of issues.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:24 am to bigpetedatiga
Gotcha. I actually misread your post. I thought you were implying that any sexual attraction towards a non-spouse is bad (we can't control that) 
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:30 am to ShortyRob
I am a resource hoarder. As a result, seeing another guy with my wife would invite competition.
Also, it was hard enough finding one oxford dictionary in the streets and urban dictionary in the sheets. I can't imagine having to put in the work to find another.
My wife and I have a simple understanding, we do not break trust. She is the only relationship I have ever been 100% monogamous in. It has been worth it.
I was in quite a few open relationships before marriage. All ended up in awkward threesomes or epic violent ends. Sometimes both. I was always jealous, but in control, the women not so much.
Seeing two women transition from embracing to a cat fight is like watching a puppy die.
Also, it was hard enough finding one oxford dictionary in the streets and urban dictionary in the sheets. I can't imagine having to put in the work to find another.
My wife and I have a simple understanding, we do not break trust. She is the only relationship I have ever been 100% monogamous in. It has been worth it.
I was in quite a few open relationships before marriage. All ended up in awkward threesomes or epic violent ends. Sometimes both. I was always jealous, but in control, the women not so much.
Seeing two women transition from embracing to a cat fight is like watching a puppy die.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:34 am to X123F45
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I am a resource hoarder. As a result, seeing another guy with my wife would invite competition.
I know. It does. Even among swingers.
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Seeing two women transition from embracing to a cat fight is like watching a puppy die.
I've seen swingers who can't handle it. It's good if they bail.
Not for everyone.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:49 am to ShortyRob
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Straight Swingers - Team sport, only straight interactions MFF, MMF, MFFFF, MMMF, MFMFMFMFMFMFMF....all good
We're going to have to agree to disagree here.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:58 am to CadesCove
To quote Dave Chapelle: "My dick is the star of MY show!"
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 10:59 am
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:01 am to ShortyRob
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I've seen swingers who can't handle it. It's good if they bail.
That has to be an awkward car ride home. And, as has been said in here already, you can't un-ring a bell.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:01 am to X123F45
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in Zachary
Why Zachary?Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:01 am to Spankum
yUp
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:03 am to RogerTheShrubber
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Maybe they really like each other but are realistic about monogamy.
lol wow.
Posted on 6/22/15 at 11:10 am to CadesCove
quote:
quote:
Straight Swingers - Team sport, only straight interactions MFF, MMF, MFFFF, MMMF, MFMFMFMFMFMFMF....all good
We're going to have to agree to disagree here.
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