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re: What's the point of open marriages?

Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:52 am to
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:52 am to
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Some people make too big of a deal about sex,


Like saying, it gets boring after a while with the same person?

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after so many times it's mundane.


Maybe for some, I find that mutual attraction and a real love for you partner, and a willingness to work at it, keeps it fresh and fun.

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Some people just like to spice it up a little.



Many ways to do this without fricking other people.

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Once you take that step though, you can't undo it.




Agreed
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:52 am to
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Neither really had a reason to lie about it

Actually. She did have a reason.

Because admitting she kept fricking up and forgetting to regularly take it makes her look like a dumb frick.
Posted by terd ferguson
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Member since Aug 2007
108740 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:54 am to
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A lot of insecure guys in here.



Insecure = not wanting to see your wife and the mother of your children getting rammed by other dude's dicks? I had no idea that lack of confidence would keep someone from wanting to watch their wife frick someone else.

I learn so much shite on the OT.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:55 am to
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Neither really had a reason to lie about it


and you know this how?

Just saying, you never know what the hell is going on in a marriage.

Me and my wife are friends with another married couple.

I talk to the husband and my wife talks to the other wife.

One day we were just talking about them, and my wife mentioned that they were going to be trying for another kid soon. This surprised me of course, because every time it came up when we were talking, he said he was done having kids.

Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
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Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:55 am to
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Because admitting she kept fricking up and forgetting to regularly take it makes her look like a dumb frick.



she's not the type of person that would have cared about that
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80227 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:56 am to
Merge finances and support one another.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:56 am to
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Insecure = not wanting to see your wife and the mother of your children getting rammed by other dude's dicks? I had no idea that lack of confidence would keep someone from wanting to watch their wife frick someone else.


NOTE: I didn't say non-open people were all insecure.

Just don't wanna get lumped in with other poster comments.
Posted by terd ferguson
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Member since Aug 2007
108740 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:57 am to
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Because admitting she kept fricking up and forgetting to regularly take it makes her look like a dumb frick.


Rob, what happens if you swing w/ some chick like this and she gets knocked up?

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NOTE: I didn't say non-open people were all insecure.

Just don't wanna get lumped in with other poster comments.


Wasn't directed at you. I just don't think labeling non-swingers as "insecure" is justifiable. I could just as easily say his insecurities are what justify him agreeing to have an open marriage.
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 9:59 am
Posted by RedRifle
Austin/NO
Member since Dec 2013
8328 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:57 am to
There was a study that showed that more men than would care to admit like that fantasy. Very few however would actually let that happen.
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:58 am to
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she's not the type of person that would have cared about that


Once again, how do you know this? You are assuming a lot.

You never know what a person is capable of. Sorry, but plenty of women "mess up" when it comes to birth control.

At the very least after the second "BC failure", you'd figure they change methods are switch it up. If nothing else you'd figure you buddy would start wearing condoms.

Not trying to call anyone a liar, but you cannot convince me of 4 birth control failures by one couple.

Posted by yellowfin
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Member since May 2006
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Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:59 am to
obviously this is going nowhere with you morons, I was just trying to make a point that you can get pregnant on the pill


Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 9:59 am to
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she's not the type of person that would have cared about that

Look. Here's the deal, your friend lied or your friends are retarded.

IF, she regularly took the pill and got pregnant anyways but THEN wanted to still use BC to avoid being pregnant again and had the doctor give her the same thing as last time, she's a tard.

But, assuming they just thought oops. OK. I'll give em 1.

But if after 2 times on the same shite, she tried the SAME type of BC AGAIN and failed, she and he are double tards.

On top of that, one would assume she told her doctor it failed and if so, he would've offered another alternative(which she obviously didn't go with).

So, 4 times?

There are ONLY two options. COMPLETE lie or TOTAL tards.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:01 am to
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Rob, what happens if you swing w/ some chick like this and she gets knocked up?



How would I even know in most cases? I tend to go to conventions and shite. There are like 3 couples we've played with long term. And, even if one got knocked up, that would require a big stage on Jerry Springer for the paternity test.

Posted by LordSaintly
Member since Dec 2005
38880 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:01 am to
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You do realize that humans do not have to run around fricking everything that moves.


And? This wasn't his point.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108740 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:01 am to
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But, assuming they just thought oops. OK. I'll give em 1.


That's all it really takes... once. You don't ever consider your wife having an "oops" moment... or some other girl you hook up with doing the same?
Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:01 am to
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with you morons


You are defending a couple who got pregnant the same way four times by accident and we are the morons?

What is the old saying? Fool me once...

Or was it, The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results?

Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:03 am to
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And? This wasn't his point.


Then what was his point?




Posted by bigpetedatiga
Alexandria, LA
Member since Aug 2009
8625 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:04 am to
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I was just trying to make a point that you can get pregnant on the pill


Well of course you can. No form of birth control will ever be 100%

But four times, that is just delusional at best.

Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:04 am to
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obviously this is going nowhere with you morons


Dude. YOU are the one that believes ONE couple failed FOUR times with the pill while using it exactly correctly.

You are more likely to meet a person with 4 dicks than for that to be true.

And, like I said, my wife uses two forms. Her statistical likelihood of becoming pregnant is VERY VERY VERY small.
Posted by terd ferguson
Darren Wilson Fan Club President
Member since Aug 2007
108740 posts
Posted on 6/22/15 at 10:05 am to
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How would I even know in most cases? I tend to go to conventions and shite.


So this is a no names kind of thing? What about diseases and shite?

ETA - I'm not arguing with you here... just inquiring.
This post was edited on 6/22/15 at 10:06 am
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