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re: Supervising your own kids in your neighborhood

Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:06 pm to
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68364 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:06 pm to
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What world was that?



The world where he wasnt a selfish prick
Posted by rantfan
new iberia la
Member since Nov 2012
14110 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:06 pm to
I was ok with it at first until a ten year boy tried to kiss my 8 year old daughter. Now nobody can play in my yard .
Posted by jrodLSUke
Premium
Member since Jan 2011
22246 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:07 pm to
Relax; that's why you have homeowner's insurance.
Posted by PapaPogey
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
39527 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:07 pm to
Yeah I lived in a very kid friendly neighborhood and a majority of them rode the bus to school with me in middle school. Times may have changed though
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:09 pm to
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I just don't want to be responsible for them.


They aren't your kids, so you aren't. Mind your own business.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64763 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:10 pm to
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Do the kids in your neighborhood act like all of the yards belong to them?



Pretty much. But I've got kids of my own as well. When they're not in school all the kids will play in my yard some then they'll go play in one of the other yards for a bit. Personally, I love pulling in from work to see my kids outside with all their friends getting to have fun and just be kids.

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There are two kids down the street, maybe 10 and 8, and they spend almost as much time in my yard as they do in their own, they play ball without permission in the front yard next door, they fish from the edge of another neighbor's property. They're not causing any trouble exactly but it does seem a little strange to me. Especially the lack of oversight from parents.

I can remember acting like this a little bit when I was a kid but that was 30 years ago and we lived in a different world. Plus my parents at least knew the people whose yards I was traipsing through all the time.



My kids and their friends tend to stick to their yards or the yards of their friends. As for supervision, my son is now 13 so we don't have to watch him like we use to. My youngest is only 7 though so she stays in our yards and if she's outside, we're outside as well.
Posted by Aux Arc
SW Missouri
Member since Oct 2011
2184 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:11 pm to
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I just want to make sure I'm not responsible for them


Don't set out any hidden bear traps or spring-loaded shotguns. Pay your insurance premiums. People worry too much about getting sued. That's what insurance is for.
Posted by tiger91
In my own little world
Member since Nov 2005
36741 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:11 pm to
As a kid we played in the neighbors yard if we were playing with the neighbors kids. Not just by ourselves! I do t personally want the neighbors kids here if they're not hanging out with/playing with my kids.

And I wouldn't want my kids playing at the neighbors (out or inside) without the neighbors kids!
Posted by PapaPogey
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
39527 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:13 pm to
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People worry too much about getting sued.


is this really not a valid concern in today's world?
Posted by LSUinMA
Commerce, Texas
Member since Nov 2008
4777 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:15 pm to
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is this really not a valid concern in today's world?


This, and also the old lady next door says that DCF is keeping an eye on those kids because of certain issues with the family. I'm trying to not be involved at all, either by letting them hang around or by discouraging them.
Posted by Aux Arc
SW Missouri
Member since Oct 2011
2184 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:16 pm to
What's the concern? Your insurance company and lawyer take care of all the heavy lifting. As long as you are well insured you really have no reason to fear litigation.
Posted by ShortyRob
Member since Oct 2008
82116 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:17 pm to
There was a very nice time in America when kids played outside and ran amok all thru the neighborhood and their fricking helicopter parents were nowhere to be found.

And other adults LOVED having children around.

And then, we all got to be anal pussies.
Posted by PapaPogey
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
39527 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:18 pm to
Honestly man, I wouldn't worry about. The world today needs more kids playing ball in yards.
Posted by cuyahoga tiger
NE Ohio via Tangipahoa
Member since Nov 2011
5845 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:19 pm to
Let 'em play man.
Posted by Slip Screen
Tomball, Texas
Member since Jan 2005
2107 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:21 pm to
I came home one night to a two high school kids shooting hoops in my driveway. I had no idea who they were but said hello and walked into my house. I assumed my wife knew their parents somehow and I didn't recognize them. Nope. Turns out my wife had no idea they were playing ball out there. I didn't give a shite but my wife went out and ran them off!
Posted by jmh5724
Member since Jan 2012
2138 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:24 pm to
I plan on letting my kids run wild throughout the neighborhood and use a drone to keep tabs on them
Posted by lsu777
Lake Charles
Member since Jan 2004
31427 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:43 pm to
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My kids and their friends tend to stick to their yards or the yards of their friends. As for supervision, my son is now 13 so we don't have to watch him like we use to. My youngest is only 7 though so she stays in our yards and if she's outside, we're outside as well.


WTF? She is 7, do you live in a bad neighborhood? I let my 4 year old and 3 year old go outside by themselves. I watch them through the windows but they are free to roam the back yard and the adjoining yards. They know not to go in the road.

When you here people talking about helicopter parents....you are being one btw. Let the 7 year old have a little freedom until she shows she can't handle it.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
5737 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:48 pm to
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Most neighborhoods with shared ponds have property lines that don't extend to the ponds. You don't own the bank


I live on a pond, and that is definitely true for me. About 4-5 ft from the waterline, which is pretty much the slope to the water, belongs to the HOA.
Posted by 3deadtrolls
lafayette
Member since Jan 2014
5737 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:50 pm to
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I was ok with it at first until a ten year boy tried to kiss my 8 year old daughter. Now nobody can play in my yard .


It was probably her milkshake that brought the boys to your yard.

To be honest, I don't know what that even means.
This post was edited on 8/18/15 at 4:52 pm
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8390 posts
Posted on 8/18/15 at 4:57 pm to
If kids are playing in my yard without permission I make sure I know who their parents are. I'm friends with all my neighbors on my street especially the ones with kids. Not saying you have to walk down there and talk about their kids but find an opportunity to get to know them and size them up. That way you can determine if you need to tell the kids to gtfo.
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