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re: OT fathers of little girls - Have you taken her on her first date?

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Posted by bigpetedatiga
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:48 am to
Taking your daughter on a date is not going to show her how she needs to be treated. Being a father is going to do that. If

Why do those two things have to be exclusive. If I take my daughter places, with the purpose of showing her how a man should act, isn't that parenting?
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:48 am to
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jesus frick you guys will hate on anything



Posted by Ping Pong
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:49 am to
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Before the Father-Daughter Dance at my high school, my Dad took me on a Father-Daughter dinner date.


OMG, did I date my dad???????


When you call a situation like that a "date", you create too much ambiguity in the English language. Women do this when they call their female friend their "girlfriend". The word "girlfriend" should only be used to describe one type of relationship, just like the word "date" should only be used to describe a situation in which the people involved are courting. Stop trying to change the definitions of words.
Posted by fr33manator
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:49 am to
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It's pretty obvious no one is pursing a romantic relationship with their daughter.


We leave that for the tidefans.com posters.
Posted by Melvin
Member since Apr 2011
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:49 am to
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the ones freaking out about calling it a "date" are the ones making it weird and overemotional IMO
Do any of you dads bring your sons on dates?
Posted by CidCock
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:50 am to
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Do any of you dads bring your sons on dates?


No, my wife will.

ETA: Do you have children?
This post was edited on 9/2/14 at 10:51 am
Posted by hardhead
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:51 am to
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Sounds like you're the one making things weird and getting overemotional



maybe so

but I found the beginning of that video creepy
Posted by Phil A Sheo
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:51 am to
Is someone cutting onions?!?!
I do dinner with my 6 y.o. girl almost every week....
Posted by Ping Pong
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:51 am to
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Do any of you dads bring your sons on dates?


exactly, they wouldn't dare call hanging out with their son a "date", but somehow its exceptable for taking their daughter out?
Posted by CidCock
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:52 am to
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but I found the beginning of that video creepy




It's terrible when a father treats his daughter with respect.
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:52 am to
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When you call a situation like that a "date", you create too much ambiguity in the English language. Women do this when they call their female friend their "girlfriend". The word "girlfriend" should only be used to describe one type of relationship, just like the word "date" should only be used to describe a situation in which the people involved are courting. Stop trying to change the definitions of words.


You aren't changing the definition. The phrase "It's a date" when not meaning an actual romantic date has been fairly common for a long time. It's a pretty common joke in rom coms.

Definitions and meanings change all the time, our language is always progressing. Deal with it.
This post was edited on 9/2/14 at 10:53 am
Posted by Melvin
Member since Apr 2011
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:52 am to
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ETA: Do you have children?
No and I'm not judging or anything. Just trying to understand the thinking behind it.
Posted by Ping Pong
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Member since Aug 2014
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:53 am to
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You aren't changing the definition. The phrase "It's a date" when not meaning an actual romantic date has been fairly common for a long time.

Definitions and meanings change all the time, our language is always progressing. Deal with it.


So if you took your son out to go Dinner, you would cal it a date?
Posted by CidCock
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:53 am to
I'd be willing to bet anyone that is upset about the use of the word date has no kids, certainly not any girls.

Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124608 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:53 am to
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exactly, they wouldn't dare call hanging out with their son a "date", but somehow its exceptable for taking their daughter out?


A "date" usually connotes someone of the opposite sex.

It's really an outing.


Y'all are some strange folks.

Posted by Salmon
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:54 am to
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Just trying to understand the thinking behind it.


it is just something that gets little girls excited

calling it a date makes it feel more special

it's really pretty simple
Posted by Dam Guide
Member since Sep 2005
15546 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:54 am to
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So if you took your son out to go Dinner, you would cal it a date?


I don't have a son, but if I did I am not homophobic enough to have an issue with it apparently.
Posted by hardhead
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:54 am to
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certainly not any girls


bingo
Posted by The Third Leg
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Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:55 am to
That video opening is creepy as frick. Dude needs to get his jacket sleeves tailored, too.
Posted by fr33manator
Baton Rouge
Member since Oct 2010
124608 posts
Posted on 9/2/14 at 10:55 am to
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exactly, they wouldn't dare call hanging out with their son a "date", but somehow its exceptable for taking their daughter out?


Well, I wouldn't teach my daughter to pee standing up either. There are double standards when it comes to how I treat my kids. Just like there are with how I treat men versus women.
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