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re: My worst fear came true.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:34 am to Breesus
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:34 am to Breesus
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Don't forget that he was 34 and she 23 when they started dating, moved in together almost immediately, and she also has to go to family court.
What could possibly go wrong?
ETA - he also mentions being the only person around after she had surgery... maybe that's because everyone else in her life realized she was a piece of shite.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 8:35 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:35 am to Breesus
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he bought a good he knew was damaged and got pissed when he couldn't repair it.
This is what it sounds like to me. I've seen relatives get cheated on and it truly blew everyone out of the water. No one expected it, and honestly didn't believe it at first. That stuff seems like it would hurt, and I feel for people involved in those situations.
But if you know there are problems going in, and you sense things, I'd like to think I would get out before it even comes down to finding something out. Haven't been in the situation, so I won't judge. But if you had the fear in the beginning, how can you get so close to get hurt that badly
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:35 am to Breesus
quote:and surgery. Probably on her gonorrhea'd up lady parts.
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So this guy went through all this before... then hooked up w/ this girl right after his divorce. And 2 years ago when they were just dating he had suspicions and married her anyway.
Don't forget that he was 34 and she 23 when they started dating, moved in together almost immediately, and she also has to go to family court.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:35 am to Breesus
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You know the lingo mik don't play dumb
Shut your whoremouth. #Winning
Remember that one?
I'm a rebel, Dottie!
I don't participate in stupid arse linguistic message board bonding vehicles.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 8:36 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:35 am to Suck Out West
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The warmth is gone. A man who was once just a huge teddy bear becomes nothing but a broken shell of a man filled with cynicism and anger. A once loving man is gone and could never come back because he was so sure and so trusted she could never betray him, the pain shatters your world. You're broken. You're done. You hate.
bullshite. You won. YOU WON. Winning is having the courage to love and commit and accept the vulnerability that comes with it. She lost. She couldn't live up to her commitment or honor the love she gave. Comprehend that. Accept that.
So why would you, the winner, let the actions of her, the loser, damage you?
Get you shite together and stay strong. Move on with your life and when the time is right, keep winning.
ETA: damn dude, you married her anyway after all that? Well, live and learn I guess.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 8:46 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:36 am to terd ferguson
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ended 3 relationships before her because they wouldn't accept my kids.
So gets divorced and within 8 months goes through 4 relationships and finally settles on a 23 year old whom he immediately moves in with.
This guy needs a life coach. If I was him, I'd ask the OT for advice daily.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:37 am to Breesus
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This guy needs a life coach. If I was him, I'd ask the OT for advice daily.
Sounds like a more reckless pre-weightloss Hulkklogan.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:39 am to mikelbr
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pre-weightloss Hulkklogan.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:43 am to terd ferguson
Terd, what's your worst fear? Because mine isn't being cheated on by some whore that I gave my life away to.
Mine is probably something like falling down a well upside down and drowning slowly while being burned alive.
Mine is probably something like falling down a well upside down and drowning slowly while being burned alive.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:43 am to Suck Out West
I'm sorry this happened to you. Maybe you should seek help. Seriously.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:47 am to Suck Out West
The moral of the story is this: never sacrifice your life completely to a woman for 2 reasons: 1, she may not be worth it, and 2, if she is worth it, such behavior will change her for the worse.
Be yourself, and let someone else love you for it.
Be yourself, and let someone else love you for it.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:48 am to Patrick_Bateman
He needs to seek friends.
Between the threads from 2013 and this one, does he not have friends or a father to slap some sense into him?
Between the threads from 2013 and this one, does he not have friends or a father to slap some sense into him?
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:50 am to Suck Out West
Not fair to blame all your problems on this girl you dated for 60 days. Sounds like you were depressed before you met her and she was tired of being with you. Not trying to be a dick because I'm married with kids too, but I'd start by forgetting her and trying to work things out between you and the mother of your kids. Maybe you changed and became someone else prior to your divorce. Marriage definitely is work, but well worth it imp. Good luck.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:53 am to Suck Out West
Good lord man, there is more than just one woman in the world.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:53 am to CadesCove
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Terd, what's your worst fear? Because mine isn't being cheated on by some whore that I gave my life away to.
Hmmm... probably getting attacked by giant bugs like in Starship Troopers.
Definitely not being cheated on by a slutwhore.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:53 am to Rhino5
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I'd start by forgetting her and trying to work things out between you and the mother of your kids.
Terrible advice. Absolutely terrible. What a shite show that would be after he just had the second one implode on him. He needs to move away and start over or something.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:57 am to Rhino5
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Not fair to blame all your problems on this girl you dated for 60 days.
Pretty sure it was over 2 years.
Not sure where you got 60 days from
Posted on 5/27/15 at 8:58 am to Suck Out West
I know those feels, bro. I don't know you, but I'd be down to crack open a few brews and listen to some Dashboard Confessional records if you want.
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