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re: My worst fear came true.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:01 am to Suck Out West
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:01 am to Suck Out West
TL; DR
What I got from it is that you got played by a sausage hunter amirite
So frick that loose goose cum dumpster of a tramp and celebrate your freedom tonight with hookers n blow. Cause today my friend is the first day of the rest of your life
What I got from it is that you got played by a sausage hunter amirite
So frick that loose goose cum dumpster of a tramp and celebrate your freedom tonight with hookers n blow. Cause today my friend is the first day of the rest of your life
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Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:04 am to Suck Out West
Pimp hand is weak
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:09 am to Suck Out West
Talk about putting someone on a pedestal.
This is a lesson you had to learn. Hell I did a long time ago. No woman (or person) is worthy of being worshipped. And that's exactly what you did with this woman.
Live and learn. In all of this you've neglected yourself, the one person you should've been taking care of first. If you can't treat yourself well you have no business in a relationship.
You should be with someone that's going to pull their own weight in the relationship.
This is a lesson you had to learn. Hell I did a long time ago. No woman (or person) is worthy of being worshipped. And that's exactly what you did with this woman.
Live and learn. In all of this you've neglected yourself, the one person you should've been taking care of first. If you can't treat yourself well you have no business in a relationship.
You should be with someone that's going to pull their own weight in the relationship.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 10:12 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:30 am to Murray
quote:Nah brah, I don't even have an alter. When I get banned, I just take the time off to do other shite.
So know we know who Hammertime's alter is.
Besides, the first thing I'm doing if I don't like a situation is cheating on them first. That's my new plan
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:38 am to Salmon
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I wish you would fix your link so I knew what the hell you were talking about
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:40 am to cas4t
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I wish you would fix your link so I knew what the hell you were talking about
Page 4... bout midway down the page someone linked it.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:43 am to Gorilla Fingers
Sorry to see anyone go through what I've been through. Know this though, some folks just aren't serious committed relationship material. They're just all about me.
Take time to fix what you need to fix (because there's always something) and wait for the right person to come along that can no only appreciate what you have to offer, but give you the same in return. It takes discipline and sacrifice but I'm walking proof it's possible.
Take time to fix what you need to fix (because there's always something) and wait for the right person to come along that can no only appreciate what you have to offer, but give you the same in return. It takes discipline and sacrifice but I'm walking proof it's possible.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:44 am to GrammarKnotsi
I was the first post and right on the money. 
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:50 am to Suck Out West
what in the frick
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:53 am to SabiDojo
quote:Technically, you are right on both counts. But shite, it's not like you went all Nostradamus and called a difficult situation. It would take a blind man not to see what was going on.
I was the first post and right on the money.
Sorry OP, but you are/were blind and you should never give someone that much power over your life.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:53 am to Suck Out West
At the end of the day, you're going to be fine. I've been where you are, and it sucks. It hurts, and you feel sick and hate the world.
Get over that shite. I regret every second I spent sulking over an ex. It hurts, and there's nothing wrong with it. Don't convince yourself it's the end of the world. It's not. If you think she was one in a million for some stupid reason, remember that there's at least 7,000 ho's just like her out there for you. Your life and the you have during it are very precious, and it's absurd to waste much time beyond initial grief on this person. If they didn't respect you enough to honor your relationship, frick 'em.
My one piece of advice is this: Don't forget that you weren't perfect either. Neither of you were remotely innocent throughout the relationship because that's how it goes. Work on the things you think may have caused issues in your own life and move on after a reasonable amount of grieving. Don't waste any more time, though, on this trick who I assume you've already wasted considerable time with.
Get over that shite. I regret every second I spent sulking over an ex. It hurts, and there's nothing wrong with it. Don't convince yourself it's the end of the world. It's not. If you think she was one in a million for some stupid reason, remember that there's at least 7,000 ho's just like her out there for you. Your life and the you have during it are very precious, and it's absurd to waste much time beyond initial grief on this person. If they didn't respect you enough to honor your relationship, frick 'em.
My one piece of advice is this: Don't forget that you weren't perfect either. Neither of you were remotely innocent throughout the relationship because that's how it goes. Work on the things you think may have caused issues in your own life and move on after a reasonable amount of grieving. Don't waste any more time, though, on this trick who I assume you've already wasted considerable time with.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 10:53 am to cas4t
thanks
and you too grammar
eta responded to myself. derp.
and you too grammar
eta responded to myself. derp.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 11:08 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:04 am to Suck Out West
The only thing wasted is time...
Do you want to waste more time or go find someone worth it? Get the frick out of that relationship and go bang some low hanging fruit. Just because you frick it don't mean you got to date it or marry it. This is how you got in this trouble last time.
Do you want to waste more time or go find someone worth it? Get the frick out of that relationship and go bang some low hanging fruit. Just because you frick it don't mean you got to date it or marry it. This is how you got in this trouble last time.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 11:06 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:05 am to htownjeep
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Technically, you are right on both counts. But shite, it's not like you went all Nostradamus and called a difficult situation. It would take a blind man not to see what was going on.
Sorry OP, but you are/were blind and you should never give someone that much power over your life
Just let me have this, bro. PLEASE!
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:06 am to Suck Out West
To go through this once is extremely hard. To go through it a second time has to be just awful.
My wife and I (we were together for 10 years - married for 3.5) just finalized our divorce a few weeks ago. She was my best friend and one of the very best people I knew. But she had issues. She had demons from her childhood that reared their ugly heads as she got older. And soon, our marriage crumbled as she went from being so sure about what she wanted (stability and family) to not wanting that at all, and just wanting to be alone. Very sad and was an emotionally devastating period for me.
But take comfort in knowing that time is the great healer of all. And something like this is like a death. You mourn, you grieve hard, and you never truly get over it...but you learn to live with it and accept it. And you move on.
A problem may have been you picked another partner similar to your ex. That just sets up a repeating cycle of heartache and misery. The girl I am seeing (a friend of mine who I reconnected with) is different from my ex and things are going great. She adores me, and I have let down my walls of hurt and have been able to reciprocate these feelings.
I was like you. Very hurt. Very angry. Very confused with how thing spiraled out of control and why it happened. But the truth is, life just happens that way. Some people get it right the first time. Others it takes 2-3 tries, but if you look for the right person with the right ideals, you'll find someone who is right for you.
From experience, going out and screwing everything that moves isn't really that great of an option. It temporarily feels great, and then the pain returns. Time is what you need and knowing what you want in a partner moving forward.
It's a hell of a journey and a crappy one some of us are tasked with taking. But if you take care of yourself, know what it is you want, and treat yourself with respect; you'll find someone who will complete you.
This reminds me of a great quote from the graphic novel, The Sandman by Neil Gaiman, so I will leave you with this:
"And at times the fact of her absence will hit you like a blow to the chest, and you will weep. But this will happen less and less as time goes on. She is dead. You are alive. So live."
My wife and I (we were together for 10 years - married for 3.5) just finalized our divorce a few weeks ago. She was my best friend and one of the very best people I knew. But she had issues. She had demons from her childhood that reared their ugly heads as she got older. And soon, our marriage crumbled as she went from being so sure about what she wanted (stability and family) to not wanting that at all, and just wanting to be alone. Very sad and was an emotionally devastating period for me.
But take comfort in knowing that time is the great healer of all. And something like this is like a death. You mourn, you grieve hard, and you never truly get over it...but you learn to live with it and accept it. And you move on.
A problem may have been you picked another partner similar to your ex. That just sets up a repeating cycle of heartache and misery. The girl I am seeing (a friend of mine who I reconnected with) is different from my ex and things are going great. She adores me, and I have let down my walls of hurt and have been able to reciprocate these feelings.
I was like you. Very hurt. Very angry. Very confused with how thing spiraled out of control and why it happened. But the truth is, life just happens that way. Some people get it right the first time. Others it takes 2-3 tries, but if you look for the right person with the right ideals, you'll find someone who is right for you.
From experience, going out and screwing everything that moves isn't really that great of an option. It temporarily feels great, and then the pain returns. Time is what you need and knowing what you want in a partner moving forward.
It's a hell of a journey and a crappy one some of us are tasked with taking. But if you take care of yourself, know what it is you want, and treat yourself with respect; you'll find someone who will complete you.
This reminds me of a great quote from the graphic novel, The Sandman by Neil Gaiman, so I will leave you with this:
"And at times the fact of her absence will hit you like a blow to the chest, and you will weep. But this will happen less and less as time goes on. She is dead. You are alive. So live."
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 11:21 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:07 am to USMCTiger03
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You won. YOU WON. Winning is having the courage to love and commit and accept the vulnerability that comes with it. She lost. She couldn't live up to her commitment or honor the love she gave. Comprehend that. Accept that.
So why would you, the winner, let the actions of her, the loser, damage you?
Get you shite together and stay strong. Move on with your life and when the time is right, keep winning.
ETA: damn dude, you married her anyway after all that? Well, live and learn I guess.
This.
All you can do is continue living your life, and move on. A woman should never define a man. What he does defines him. Do whatever it is that you are passionate about, and it will help heal you.
Learn from the mistakes you made, because nobody is perfect, and there is a 100% chance that you weren't in the relationship. When the next lady comes along, hopefully she will be mature enough to treat you the way you deserve, and you will be better when you have the opportunity again.
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 3:43 pm
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:09 am to LSUZombie
Good Post
Our friend needs to know this is all about time.
The time you wasted
The time you need to recover
The time you need to find another
Go live your life, time is a wasting
Our friend needs to know this is all about time.
The time you wasted
The time you need to recover
The time you need to find another
Go live your life, time is a wasting
This post was edited on 5/27/15 at 11:11 am
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:09 am to Suck Out West
You don't chase. You replace.
Posted on 5/27/15 at 11:11 am to TigerinKorea
My worst fear is getting gang raped by a bunch of black midgets with 12" blue vein throbbers, while face down in a HIV sloots vagina, in the rain, during American Idol, with no lube.
Thank God this isn't my thread.
Thank God this isn't my thread.
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