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Legally, what physical discipline constitutes abuse these days?

Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:02 pm
Posted by PenguinNinja
Antarctica (and Japan)
Member since Sep 2011
2081 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:02 pm
My 8-month old son was eating tonight, and he threw some food at his mom and yelled. I found myself thinking that if he were 8 years old and did that, I maybe inclined to give him a swift, appropriately firm,open-handed pop upside the back of his head.

I don't think seeing this in public would have been looked at twice 25-30 years ago, but nowadays, I could be hauled off to jail for all I know. So I got to wondering what is and isn't allowed legally (not morally or socially acceptable) these days.

Whipping? Belts? Kneeling on rice?

I know there are tons of young pussies on here raised in the age of timeouts with their PlayStation growing up, so I fully expect to be told I'm a monster for even asking. That said, I'm looking for someone who can answer the question specifically. Thanks.
Posted by StealthCalais11
Lurker since 2007
Member since Aug 2011
12447 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:03 pm to
A switch. Make him break it off the tree himself, so that he can choose the weapon of his demise. Nothing like a little PTSD growing up
This post was edited on 3/21/17 at 7:05 pm
Posted by djangochained
Gardere
Member since Jul 2013
19054 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:03 pm to
Don't hit an 8 month old
Posted by el duderino III
People's Republic of Austin
Member since Jul 2011
2382 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:04 pm to
in portland, mean words

in texas, drawing blood
Posted by Pectus
Internet
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Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:05 pm to


Trying to make it meta.
Posted by LCA131
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72591 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:06 pm to
In today's society, I think a stern talking to, is over the line.

Pussies run this country.
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98132 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:08 pm to
Pics of mom so we can determine the severity of this offense.
Posted by CajunSoldier225
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8990 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:11 pm to
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18664 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:25 pm to
There are plenty of studies showing that spanking is no more effective than other means of behavior correction. It's also been shown to cause stress and other psychological issues. However, there is a ton of anecdotal evidence to support giving kids a swift kick in this arse to straighten them out.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:28 pm to
Didn't read anything but the topic, but I'll go ahead and say this thread is off the trashy meter
Posted by LucasP
Member since Apr 2012
21618 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:29 pm to
frick that, I ain't risking jail time. Just stick to emotional abuse, it's more effective and requires less effort.
Posted by Mr. Hangover
New Orleans
Member since Sep 2003
34507 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:31 pm to
quote:

Kneeling on rice



Doesn't hurt
Posted by el duderino III
People's Republic of Austin
Member since Jul 2011
2382 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:34 pm to
quote:

quote:
Kneeling on rice



Doesn't hurt


he's thinking of the asian tradition of making kids kneel on frozen peas. or holding a heavy book or other object over their head for a certain period of time, and if you drop it, you have have to do it again.

I think asian culture has the right attitude on corporal punishment. They use pain, but without using (and thereby teaching) violence. I'm certainly going to use some of their methods on my kids.
This post was edited on 3/21/17 at 7:36 pm
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29625 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:35 pm to
Scare them with your voice when they are 18m or so and you will not need to bring out the big guns. Always leave an option they haven't yet experienced which, as far as they know, is absolutely horrific and should never be brought to bear.
Once you spank then you have shown all your cards and they know everything you have. Better to leave a Trump card in your hand.
Posted by Paco_taco
Dallas, Tx
Member since Apr 2012
1361 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:53 pm to
I quarterdecked my boys. Only needed to do it a couple times and now they just have to hear me ask "so you boys want to play games?" and they straighten up.

LINK
This post was edited on 3/21/17 at 7:54 pm
Posted by jrodLSUke
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Member since Jan 2011
22060 posts
Posted on 3/21/17 at 7:54 pm to
quote:

I found myself thinking that if he were 8 years old and did that, I maybe inclined to give him a swift, appropriately firm,open-handed pop upside the back of his head.

That's some grade A parenting, let me tell ya. If that is OK to do, why not smack the 8 month old. Smack the mom while you're at it.
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