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Posted on 4/7/14 at 12:35 am to AubieALUMdvm
Posted on 4/7/14 at 12:35 am to AubieALUMdvm
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I don't think this is possible. If it's the person you marry you had to have been attracted to them right off the bat and desired something with them even if you weren't acting on it at the time (AKA not really "just friends"). The only exception (that I can think of) would be like young, childhood friends that grew up and then dated/got married.
I kinda agree with this.
The current girl I'm dating I was friends with for like 4 years before we started dating. The only reason, though, was because we were alternating relationships with other people. When I was single she'd be dating someone and when she was single I'd be dating someone.
About a year ago (I was single), I findout she'd broken up with her longtime bf. She told me she was coming to visit and we basically ripped each other's clothes off the entire weekend. I asked if she'd always wanted to and she said definitely but the timing never worked. I felt the same way.
Zero chance I could go from BFF laying in bed with a girl to dating. I don't care if she's married to the President, if a girl sleeps in my bed and I don't try something it's cause I'm not attracted to her.
But I'm a pig so what do I know?
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Posted on 4/7/14 at 1:19 am to RGJ18
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She actually dated one of my best friends
Same for me, dated my friend for a couple months. We remained friends for 11 years until we started dating, this weekend was our 1 year anniversary.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 1:33 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Nope, met her in class and set my sights on her. Married 10 years in May
Posted on 4/7/14 at 2:07 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
quote:A few weeks
If so, how long were you friends with him or her before you began dating?
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:03 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Yes, and still are best friends.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 3:55 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Yes.
Friends for about a year and a half before we started dating.
Friends for about a year and a half before we started dating.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 6:12 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
No, but she actually grew up on the same street as me. I was on the 500 block, she lived on the 600 block. Passed her house on my bike everyday. Met her in high school a few years after she moved to a different part of town.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:25 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
I always win these conversations.
I knew about my wife for about 2 years before meeting her. She was friends of my friends but she lived out of state. Would always hear stories about her: funny, pretty, sweet and kind but was married to some loser who treated her like dirt.
They divorced shortly before she was done with nursing school. After graduating, she moved back home. 6 weeks after our first date we were married. That was almost 14 years ago. Still going strong.
I knew about my wife for about 2 years before meeting her. She was friends of my friends but she lived out of state. Would always hear stories about her: funny, pretty, sweet and kind but was married to some loser who treated her like dirt.
They divorced shortly before she was done with nursing school. After graduating, she moved back home. 6 weeks after our first date we were married. That was almost 14 years ago. Still going strong.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:26 am to danieltzedekah
ummm, i think she won.
six weeks after her divorce, she had a new babydaddy?
congrats?
six weeks after her divorce, she had a new babydaddy?
congrats?
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:40 am to Displaced
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:41 am to Displaced
Interesting perspective. Not the case but sorry life has you so jaded. Hope things pick up for you. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:44 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Nope.
Chicks don't have friends. It may look like a friendship, but it's not. It's either you on your way to the V, or her using your desire for the V to benefit her.
This is freindship
and can only exist between guys
Chicks don't have friends. It may look like a friendship, but it's not. It's either you on your way to the V, or her using your desire for the V to benefit her.
This is freindship
and can only exist between guys
Posted on 4/7/14 at 7:51 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
briefly. Basically went right into dating
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:12 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
quote:
If so, how long were you friends with him or her before you began dating?
This is the story of most of my "official" relationships, and they usually end quite badly. I'd know them for around 4 months, hook up over that time period, convince myself I liked them, and then boom... relationship. It'll last around 3 months, and then I realize I'm an idiot, and then we'll try the whole "it's cool, we're just friends" deal. That blows up in my face, and back to square one haha.
I guess the moral is, just break up with them.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:15 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
nope
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:17 am to HeadSlash
I was friends with 1 girlfriend before we dated. Probably for about 2 years we hung out in the same circle of friends before dating. The rest were all straight to dating types.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:21 am to Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Wife #1 - had met her previously but didn't actually know her. Stayed married for 14 years
Wife #2 - didn't know her at all even though we went to high school together. Will celebrate 14 years of marriage this year.
Wife #2 - didn't know her at all even though we went to high school together. Will celebrate 14 years of marriage this year.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:25 am to Homesick Tiger
SO and I were friends for several years. She also dated one of my best friends for a good while. We're bad about recycling among my group of friends.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:42 am to danieltzedekah
Marrying somone six weeks after getting with them blows my mind. My wife and I were together 2 1/2 years before we were married. We even lived together for for a while before getting married. Once we had to start combining finances and everything, you learn a whole new side of ther person. We obvioiusly got through it fine, but I couldn't imagine the things I would still be learning about a person after six weeks.
Posted on 4/7/14 at 8:45 am to Darth_Vader
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and she is sleeping next to me right now.
i thought she died during child birth?
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