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Died or Passed...what do you say?

Posted on 8/9/16 at 9:59 am
Posted by Tiger inTampa
Tampa, FL
Member since Sep 2009
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 9:59 am
My wife says "Passed Away, Passed". I've always said "died". She says her version is less crass. Of course I disagreed. After the conversation I started to pay more attention and have noticed that talking heads on the tube generally say passed as do most people in day to day conversation.

When did died or dying become a bad word?
This post was edited on 8/9/16 at 11:29 am
Posted by fisherbm1112
Baton Rouge
Member since Jan 2010
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:01 am to
I usually say died if it is sudden and passed if it is foreseen.
Posted by LSUBoo
Knoxville, TN
Member since Mar 2006
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:01 am to
quote:

She says her version is less crass.


It probably is.

quote:

When did died or dying become a bad word?


It's not a bad word.
Posted by Teddy Ruxpin
Member since Oct 2006
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:01 am to
Connotation
Posted by DeathValley85
Member since May 2011
17175 posts
Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:01 am to
Saying "passed" IS less crass.

It being less crass than "died" doesn't make it a bad word....not everything is good or bad.
Posted by abitabrewed4LSU
Houston, TX
Member since Feb 2009
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:01 am to
It is more tactful.
Posted by Bmath
LA
Member since Aug 2010
18668 posts
Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
You're simply debating semantics. Passed away has a more delicate connotation, but neither one is really more correct.
This post was edited on 8/9/16 at 10:03 am
Posted by SG_Geaux
Beautiful St George
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
quote:

It is more tactful.

Posted by Chad504boy
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
either way, they gone.
Posted by Tactical1
Denham Springs
Member since May 2010
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
I say passed.
Posted by Topwater Trout
Red Stick
Member since Oct 2010
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
quote:

Died


quote:

Passed Away


seems old or country
Posted by rondo
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:02 am to
When talking about someone you know or to someone that knew the person you say passed.

When referring to a stranger you say died.


ETA: it's science.
This post was edited on 8/9/16 at 10:03 am
Posted by NYNolaguy1
Member since May 2011
20893 posts
Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:04 am to
To me "died" implied it was sudden or unexpected. Passed away implies it was foreseen or anticipated for some time.
Posted by ForeverLSU02
Albany
Member since Jun 2007
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:05 am to
quote:

Died or Passed?

It depends on who it was and what type of relationship I had with that person. If it was just some random person I say died. If it was someone that I knew personally I say passed away
Posted by AU_251
Your dads room
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:06 am to
I think "passed away" sounds more respectable, so I go with that
Posted by Tiger inTampa
Tampa, FL
Member since Sep 2009
2171 posts
Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:08 am to
quote:

It depends on who it was and what type of relationship I had with that person. If it was just some random person I say died. If it was someone that I knew personally I say passed away


I understand that thought process. I've just always used died. When speaking of my parents I'll say "When Momma died or before Dad died". Never really thought about it until the lovely Mrs. schooled me.
Posted by The Mick
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:09 am to
Depends on the cirumstance
Posted by choupiquesushi
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:09 am to
expired
Posted by its1999
Member since Aug 2009
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Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:10 am to
quote:

died" implied it was sudden or unexpected. Passed away implies it was foreseen or anticipated for some time.


I can see that.

When I talk about the specific time period or fact of my mother's death, I usually say, "my mom died suddenly."

But if I'm asked about my family or something unrelated to her actual death, I often say, "my mom passed away a few years ago."

Of course, it took me several months to even be able to say dead, died, or death. Before that, it was, "when my mom had her stroke."
Posted by LSUButt
Lowcountry
Member since Jan 2006
14930 posts
Posted on 8/9/16 at 10:11 am to
Died all day every day
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