Yea it's called a big freaking mess and he's about to step right into it.
I'm not advocating the OP giving the chick free reign of the property, etc. but maybe he could help her find a job and have someone to talk to about things since it seems like she's got no one now.
You say she's the hardest worker you've ever seen yet manipulative and also committed to staying with a convict. I shouldn't have to spell it out, she's on meth. Most meth heads look completely normal until years down the line when they're close to rock bottom. Your property may be an innocent retreat for her and nothing more, she gets a little dopesick and remorseful and wants to be somewhere wholesome. Either way you need to cut the cord, and let the sheriff know whats going on. Meth heads and their SOs will rob you fricking blind.
Either way, a completely innocent woman typically doesn't just start dating a guy that ends up in jail.
quote:this is good advice. if you dont assert boundaries... i ts your own damn fault if something happens
seriously, there is something very off with someone wandering around someone's property without permission. very off. also she is connected to people in jail. you need to make it known in no uncertain terms that she is not to be on the property without your express permission. no exceptions. let her know you have a company that will be watching teh property and the sherriff is in the know. if she can't handle that or can't understand your side of it, then you need to disassociate yourself from her or you will get hurt in more ways that one--personally, financially, maybe legally
I shouldn't have to spell it out, she's on meth.
quote:whit. when you make comments like this, i just hear Adam DeVine in workaholics talking.
I'd get into a serious relationship with her. That's just me though. I love saving hoes