Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

A young woman I used to work with has been going out to my country property by herself at random times - picking thru the gardens, sitting on my porch... basically hanging out by herself.

Her background:

hard worker
5'2"
blond
very cute
tomboyish
tons of guys after her
boyfriend in jail

lost her father and youngest daughter recently
may view me as somewhat of a father figure

always wears tight shorts and skimpy clothing around me

I've never slept with her or come on to her - way too much drama for me

I enjoy talking to her and hanging out with her for short periods of time

She's had surgery for a weird condition in her hip and had to take off work

Lost her home

I've known her casually for about 5 years now


Basically, I went out to property today and found her just wandering around - going thru an old barn. I told her we need to have a talk about what's going on here. She agreed and is coming out next week to talk. I understand the trespassing laws and nicely told her she doesn't have an implied permission to be on the property but I'd like to have a serious talk with her.


How would you handle this? I don't want to crush the poor girl considering she may have some kind of father figure thing going with me.

All opinions welcome - I may actually get some good ideas here...oooooor, maybe not.