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re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:10 am to
Posted by cas4t
Member since Jan 2010
70887 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:10 am to
didn't read the thread but what's her bf in jail for?
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:10 am to
quote:

I don't want to crush the poor girl



This will turn into this:


quote:

I want to bang the shite out of the poor girl
Posted by TigerHam85
59-024 Kamehameha Highway
Member since Nov 2009
31493 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:10 am to
I have a hard time believing she spit out 3 kids and is homeless in her 20s, AND she's good looking.

She's trashy as frick. You don't want to be friends with her. Bail out.
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:11 am to
quote:

didn't read the thread but what's her bf in jail for?


don't know
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:13 am to
quote:

I have a hard time believing she spit out 3 kids and is homeless in her 20s, AND she's good looking.

She's trashy as frick. You don't want to be friends with her. Bail out.



She is one of the hardest working females I ever worked with - remember seeing her work 80+ hours/week for months on end. Everything in her life was going great until this medical condition came up - her life pretty much fell to pieces after that. Afterwards, she got hooked up with this guy. The girl's tough - just hit a brick wall in life - then lost a child and her father.

I wouldn't be wasting my time with some drug addict - if you've ever read any of my posts - i got zero interest in helping people on drugs.
Posted by whit
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2010
10998 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:18 am to
I'd get into a serious relationship with her. That's just me though. I love saving hoes
Posted by lsusteve1
Member since Dec 2004
41858 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:19 am to
I'd just explain to her no more visits without permission.

It's a liability to you

Tell her you'll always be there for advice and keep the relationship on business like.



Or

Just go ahead and tap it and ride the drama wave
Posted by Bullfrog
Institutionalized but Unevaluated
Member since Jul 2010
56150 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:19 am to
Tell her you don't mind listening to her and giving advice if asked. But not to go out to your place without an invite and you present.

Also, let her know the neighbors do keep an eye on it for you and if they can't reach you, they will call the sheriff who will call it trespassing.

Beyond encouraging words to get her moving in the right direction, I'd not offer anything else.
Posted by Count Chocula
Tier 5 and proud
Member since Feb 2009
63908 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:20 am to
So he knows Paige
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:21 am to
quote:

Tell her you don't mind listening to her and giving advice if asked. But not to go out to your place without an invite and you present.

Also, let her know the neighbors do keep an eye on it for you and if they can't reach you, they will call the sheriff who will call it trespassing.

Beyond encouraging words to get her moving in the right direction, I'd not offer anything else.


thanks. that's pretty much what I was thinking too... figured it wouldn't hurt to get a few opinions before I talk to her
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:22 am to
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I'd get into a serious relationship with her. That's just me though. I love saving hoes



Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:27 am to
I'm sure it has been said before, but it cannot be said enough. Do not be alone with this gal, certainly not at your property. Meet her in a public place.
Posted by TigerStripes06
SWLA
Member since Sep 2006
30032 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:32 am to
Boyfriend in jail. Straighten it out or when he gets out of jail, he's going to be on your property as well. That's pretty much all I took away from this post.
Posted by papz
Austin, TX
Member since Jul 2008
9330 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:33 am to
Try taking her to a counselor. It certainly not your job to look after her, but her having kids and all, if she were to take her own life, I think it'll weigh on your conscious more than you'd like. She sounds like a train wreck.
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:35 am to
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You are going to get screwed, and not in a good way. I agree with the rest of the OT who thinks your property is going to wind up being used by the BF to be a barricaded standoff set piece in some played out on TV drama where you went to talk her down and got held hostage before being shot.


Also, have you ever heard of the word enabler? She is going to get everything she can out of this relationship, whether it be money, companionship, a place to hang out, etc.

How about just cut things off completely before you get burned. You don't have to be mother Theresa
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
83927 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:37 am to
Make a move. You need a woman and she needs a place to stay.
This post was edited on 6/16/14 at 9:40 am
Posted by Seymour
Gulf Coast
Member since Sep 2013
1630 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:39 am to
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There is a barrage of trouble around the bend. I'd do whatever it took to get away from this. It's a mess. Help her out but I'd be slowly moving away from this impending trainwreck.
Posted by Golfer
Member since Nov 2005
75052 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:39 am to
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How about just cut things off completely before you get burned. You don't have to be mother Theresa


There's probably a happy medium between ceasing all contact and being Mother Teresa
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
9784 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:41 am to
quote:

There's probably a happy medium between ceasing all contact and being Mother Teresa


Yea it's called a big freaking mess and he's about to step right into it.
Posted by CptBengal
BR Baby
Member since Dec 2007
71661 posts
Posted on 6/16/14 at 9:43 am to
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Yea it's called a big freaking mess and he's about to step right into it.



Yep.

Tell her trespassers can be shot. then put up signs to that effect.

Then if she or the trash bf comes by, shoot them.

Profit.
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