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re: Any tips on Firing someone?

Posted on 9/19/17 at 11:57 am to
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8317 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 11:57 am to
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 trick my brother has used with a couple of people who he thought might cause a scene. Take them to a nice lunch and let them go in public. Not like at the top of your voice so everyone in the restaurant hears you, but just lowkey in a public setting. Less likely to get an explosive response. And as a bonus you have their last paycheck with you and that's that. You'll ship their private belongings to them, no need for them to return to the business. Lunch is on me, good luck in the future. 


Whole lotta unnecessary stuff there imo.
Posted by SundayFunday
Member since Sep 2011
9298 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:00 pm to
Absolutely record the entire thing. I dont know if you haev to tell her for it to count as evidence in a lawsuit but regardless, record it with your phone
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:01 pm to
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Whole lotta unnecessary stuff there imo.


Probably so in most cases, but for the more sensitive people it saves him a lot of headaches.
Posted by Spasweezy
Unfortunately, Louisiana
Member since Jan 2014
6605 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:02 pm to
She fired herself. You're just the messenger.
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8317 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:03 pm to
I guess if it worked for those situations then that's good. If my boss took me to lunch to fire me I'd be like are you fricking kidding me?
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
113897 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:16 pm to
Be direct. Straight to the point and don't try to make them feel better by going on and on. Just say "Due to ___________ we have decided to let you go. Thank you for your service here. We wish you the best of luck in the future",

Posted by VermilionTiger
Member since Dec 2012
37572 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:21 pm to
My only advice is to have another female or HR a member (female HR a member of you can) with you
This post was edited on 9/19/17 at 12:22 pm
Posted by DirtyMikeandtheBoys
Member since May 2011
19419 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:21 pm to
Make them quit instead
This post was edited on 9/19/17 at 12:22 pm
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:41 pm to
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Make them quit instead


I have a buddy who is a warehouse manager for a tire distributor. That's his philosophy, he never fires anyone for performance related issues. I mean sexual harassment or something along those lines yes he'll fire them, but if they are just shitty workers , he just cuts their hours and puts them on the shittiest job assignments until they quit.
Posted by Bard
Definitely NOT an admin
Member since Oct 2008
51488 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:42 pm to
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also this person is a highly emotional female


PIIHB as a severance package.
Posted by partsman103
Member since Sep 2008
8089 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:50 pm to
My advice:

1- Have a check ready for wages earned up to Wednesday.
2- Make sure you have another Manager in the office with you.
3- When you give her the news, be direct and to the point. Do not give the person the opportunity to respond. Ever.
4- make sure you have documentation of the performance issues, lack of development, et al and that they are signed by employee, the manager and a witness and/or the person who provided the evaluation.
5- During the process of termination have someone collect all her things and have waiting for them outside meeting room.
6- Have security outside the door to escort the person from the building.
Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:54 pm to
Just say "I've heard you are a white supremacist, get out"

She'll leave.
Posted by Pastalaya
New Orleans
Member since Aug 2012
816 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 1:26 pm to
Update:
We are going to provide a month's pay as severance.

I won't bring up the fact that she lied to me at all.

The conversation will be all around the most important reason as to why she is being let go...we are restructuring and cannot keep an extra assistant and instead need to hire another sales person.
Performance issues and dishonesty aside, this is the real truth.
This post was edited on 9/19/17 at 1:28 pm
Posted by 50_Tiger
Dallas TX
Member since Jan 2016
39981 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 1:28 pm to
quote:

Update:
We are going to provide a month's pay as severance.

I won't bring up the fact that she lied to me at all.

The conversation will be all around the most important reason as to why she is being let go...we are restructuring and cannot keep an extra assistant and instead need to hire another sales person.
Performance issues and dishonesty aside, this is the real truth.



You need a real paper trail.

You have this right?

edit: It is honorable yall are doing 1 months pay though.
This post was edited on 9/19/17 at 1:29 pm
Posted by baldona
Florida
Member since Feb 2016
20397 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 1:32 pm to
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We are going to provide a month's pay as severance.


Are you firing her or laying her off? Firing is not a severance. If you offer a severance, are you not setting yourself up for other things also?

You do realize she is going to say she wants to try the sales job right?

Imo, that's a bad idea. If her performance sucks, fire her. Don't discuss the other things, it's not necessary at all.

Make up your mind though, at this point stop feeling bad. Cut ties and move on, its best for both sides.
Posted by Kraut Dawg
Member since Sep 2012
4503 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 1:54 pm to
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Posted by HeyHeyHogsAllTheWay
Member since Feb 2017
12458 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 2:07 pm to
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Are you saying that the employer doesn't pay federal unemployment tax?


That's not what I'm saying at all. What I AM saying is that the portion the employer pays is actually the employee's money too, because it's figured into the cost of hiring said employee. IOW if an employer wasn't required to pay say $100 a week in UE insurance for an employee one would expect that the employer would pay the $100 a week directly to the employee.

Probably not what would really happen, but it's the theory.
Posted by Kraut Dawg
Member since Sep 2012
4503 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 2:18 pm to
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Posted by LanierSpots
Sarasota, Florida
Member since Sep 2010
61579 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 2:31 pm to


Posted by Gris Gris
OTIS!NO RULES FOR SAUCES ON STEAK!!
Member since Feb 2008
47361 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 2:32 pm to
We have always documented the personnel file when there are issues of any kind just in case even though LA is an at will state.

I've only fought unemployment one time because it was appropriate. I won. Otherwise, it's just not worth my time to do so and particularly if it requires the presence of other employees. I prefer not to involve them. It's not exactly a morale booster.

We do not give a reason for the firing. We don't have to. It's very simply something like "your services are no longer needed and you are no longer an employee" along with whatever cleanup info needs to be given regarding Cobra and other benefits.

When we know ahead of time that a firing is going to happen, the desk/work station is cleared out either after work the day before or early in the morning before others arrive with two people present. The employee is then met upon arrival and escorted to whatever office in which the termination will take place, presented the belongings and escorted from the building. Sometimes, the employee may be called to the office just before closing such that the other employees are gone when it happens and the two people present can escort the employee to the work station to clear out the desk. It seems to work better when there isn't an office full of other employees present.
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