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re: Any tips on Firing someone?

Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:19 pm to
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110629 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:19 pm to
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she lied to me about it. I wouldn't care if she hadn't lied. I didn't even ask, she just rolled up and told me lies.

Gotcha

If she's had ongoing performance issues, why is a firing coming as a shock to her? If it's ongoing, at some point she should have been told she's on her last chance.
Posted by LSUengr
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2005
2327 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:19 pm to
A Wednesday morning is good but a Monday morning is better. Absolutely do not do it on a Friday. Fired on a Monday or Wednesday, people can pick up the pieces and look for new work. Do it on a Friday and they stew all weekend since they can't go actively look for new work. Then they go postal and come shoot up your office.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68446 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:21 pm to
Have them keep working but there is a problem with payroll
This post was edited on 9/19/17 at 8:28 am
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
110629 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:21 pm to
quote:

A Wednesday morning is good but a Monday morning is better. Absolutely do not do it on a Friday. Fired on a Monday or Wednesday, people can pick up the pieces and look for new work. Do it on a Friday and they stew all weekend since they can't go actively look for new work. Then they go postal and come shoot up your office.

I go the other way on that one. Do it on a Friday, they have the weekend to hang with friends and party and drink to forget getting fired. Do it on a Monday and they have an entire week alone in their home to stew on it.

But in all honesty, I don't care much about the day of the week to be honest, whenever it presents itself, I'm doing it as soon as possible based on the circumstances.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:22 pm to
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I know it's too late now but you clearly haven't managed this person correctly.

Short of someone doing a random one time act that is worthy of being fired, it should never come as a shock to a person to be fired for ongoing performance issues. This person should have been coached along the way and at some point known they were on their last chance and couldn't frick up any more.


This. If the employee is surprised then you as a manager seriously fricked up setting expectations.
Posted by ugastreaker
South Ga
Member since Jun 2015
4105 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:22 pm to
Just keep it short and simple and I'd recommend to be honest. Give her the option to resign in lieu of termination. I agree with others, have a witness present and record meeting if possible. Also have witness escort her to office/ cubicle/ desk to ensure no work material is destroyed or taken. Once she's off the premise, I'd change locks and passwords.

ETA: for a small fee, I will do it for you.
This post was edited on 9/18/17 at 10:24 pm
Posted by Zap Rowsdower
MissLou, La
Member since Sep 2010
13211 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:22 pm to
Treat it like taking off a bandage, just end it as fast as it possible. Rip it off.

Posted by Geekboy
Member since Jan 2004
4918 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:25 pm to
If you've had sex with her you're in deep shite.
Posted by pwejr88
Red Stick
Member since Apr 2007
36155 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:28 pm to
Talk to her like you would want someone to talk to you.
Posted by Spankum
Miss-sippi
Member since Jan 2007
55973 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:32 pm to
Man, that shite just sucks balls...firing someone is absolutely the most difficult thing that I have had to do in my job. I have the benefit of having an HR person to consult and that helps a lot. Honestly, I think you should never fire anyone (particularly a protected class) without handling it one of two ways:

1. document the poor performance very well with progressive discipline up to termination.

or

2. don't really give them a reason and just say something like "we have decided to go another direction with this position...I may chalk it up to the cost of doing business and lay her off (which does allow her to draw unemployment).

terrible thing to have to deal with and I lose sleep over it every single time I have to do it.
Posted by 12
Redneck part of Florida
Member since Nov 2010
18751 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:43 pm to
It sucks, even when they deserve it. Like others have said, have HR present. Keep it short and remain professional. I'm a pretty laid back boss, but the HR Manager told me that I turn into a robot when handing out discipline and firings. We have ours in a memo that we give the employee. I read the first paragraph verbatim and then get to it quickly.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22151 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:44 pm to
There are no less than 50 people feverishly reviewing your post history right now to make sure you're not their boss.
Posted by JetsetNuggs
Member since Jun 2014
13879 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 10:55 pm to
Is your name Zach by chance?
Posted by illinitiger
North then South
Member since Feb 2009
3223 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 11:05 pm to
Posted by reggierayreb
Germantown
Member since Nov 2012
16946 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 11:12 pm to
Have a 3rd party present and have something typed up that she can sign and date that says she's agreeing to the termination (put something in there that says she'll be compensated for all of her wages she is owed)... Then she'll think for a split second she has to sign it to get the pay she is due so she'll sign and date without thinking about it... DO NOT say you are sorry... You are just doing your job.

Make sure to do (not do) these 3 things and you're good to go.

Posted by Dick Leverage
In The HizHouse
Member since Nov 2013
9000 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 11:13 pm to
Do not bring that up. It can get into all manner of "well, so and so did this and he/she wasn't fired."

Just tell her that she is not performing to the companies expectations and that her employment with the company is terminated. Be prepared to demonstrate and identify her shortcomings when she asks for examples. She will ask why she was given no warning or probationary period to improve. I am not sure what you should say to that because you fricked the process up.

Regardless, unless she is an old person or a minority, the worst you should expect is that she is granted unemployment insurance upon appeal because you did not follow proper termination protocol.

If this person is a minority, I would recommend that you make this meeting a discussion about setting expectations for improvement over the next 4 weeks. Give her proper paperwork documenting the agreement when the discussion is over. If she hasn't met the expectations for improvement in 4 weeks, meet again and fire her. Have HR present at both meetings.
Posted by ugastreaker
South Ga
Member since Jun 2015
4105 posts
Posted on 9/18/17 at 11:17 pm to
Give her the chance to resign so she's not another statistic drawing unemployment. I can't stand the mooching sob's. No sense in her getting my money because she couldn't do her job to begin with.
Posted by geauxbrown
Louisiana
Member since Oct 2006
19382 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:52 am to
Just went through the same thing. I've fired several male employees over the years but this was the first female. I really tried to be gentle and explain the reason but she got very emotional. Then when HR tried to escort her out of the building, she got pissy. It was a bad scene.

I'm afraid there's no good way.
Posted by little billy
Orange County, CA
Member since May 2015
8317 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 12:58 am to
quote:

Give her the chance to resign so she's not another statistic drawing unemployment. I can't stand the mooching sob's. No sense in her getting my money because she couldn't do her job to begin with.


You sound like a real a-hole.
Posted by I'mCastorTroy
Member since Dec 2012
144 posts
Posted on 9/19/17 at 1:38 am to
If you're a Subway manager I'd reconsider
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