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Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:16 am to anc
Have you thought about going the international route? or are you deadset on an American child?
a friends mom has adopted 9 Chinese kids within the last 10 years
I have no idea how she does it
a friends mom has adopted 9 Chinese kids within the last 10 years
I have no idea how she does it
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:16 am to anc
My parents adopted a kid after I left for school.
It's been hell on earth for them ever since. With abortion, nobody births and gives up for adoption "normal" kids anymore. They're all defective in some way, unfortunately.
It's been hell on earth for them ever since. With abortion, nobody births and gives up for adoption "normal" kids anymore. They're all defective in some way, unfortunately.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:16 am to anc
Go grab a Chinese baby. No shortage of them.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:17 am to anc
Well that makes me feel a little better, for the other kids anyway. Keep your head up buddy.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:18 am to CadesCove
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Where is the upper class suburb of Jackson?
Madison has a lot of upper middle class and upper class. Used to live there when I worked in Jackson. The partners in my old firm still live in Madison and they do very very well.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:19 am to Salmon
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Have you thought about going the international route? or are you deadset on an American child?
a friends mom has adopted 9 Chinese kids within the last 10 years
I have no idea how she does it
My brother's friend has 2 Chinese girls and 1 Vietnamese girl.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:20 am to MSTiger33
those people are better than me, because all those kids have some type of physical or mental disability
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:21 am to anc
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You have no idea.
yep, it's a seedy process, prospective parents have to be on their best behavior to try and stay in favor of the little skank ho to get chosen, kind of like a college football recruiting process
gets worse if you go through the Catholics, then you have to do the dance for a guy that's never been married, supposedly sworn to celibacy, to prove you are good enough, along with random unannounced inspections to your home to make sure you're on the up and up, and of course you have to pay through the nose for this privilege
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:21 am to anc
As an adoptive mom, I would be severely unhappy if this was a pic of my kids in a thread that detailed their private birth history. If you plan to be an adoptive dad, you should start with considering how your child might someday feel if their pic were posted in a thread with "true trash" in the title and addressing his or her birth family. 
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:22 am to lsunurse
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random man that got some mother/daughter action
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Where has chef leppard been lately?
Seriously, this has his fingerprints all over it.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:24 am to anc
We tried the adoption route once, it turned into an absolute shite show with a private adoption gone wrong. Luckily we found out pretty early of alot of deception. We called the supposed baby daddy, and with his honesty and a calender we figured out that no one knew the birth father.
Turned out on day of birth, a family showed up from Illinois to take the baby home. Momma had taken drug tests and was clean when we were dealing with her early on, turns out she went full bore crackhead months before the birth. Baby was born with issues, and Illinois family packed there stuff up and left sans baby. Baby was taken into state custody.
A terribly sad situation, but when you are dealing with a dirtbag you just cant fathom the lies they will tell.
I do know of alot of folks that have had wonderful and successful adoptions, I was just 0 for 1.
Turned out on day of birth, a family showed up from Illinois to take the baby home. Momma had taken drug tests and was clean when we were dealing with her early on, turns out she went full bore crackhead months before the birth. Baby was born with issues, and Illinois family packed there stuff up and left sans baby. Baby was taken into state custody.
A terribly sad situation, but when you are dealing with a dirtbag you just cant fathom the lies they will tell.
I do know of alot of folks that have had wonderful and successful adoptions, I was just 0 for 1.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:25 am to anc
Having not read the whole thread, have you guys thought about or can you do in vitro? My daughter is having the process in a few weeks with donor eggs and it has about a 90% chance of success. It is expensive ($20,000) but well worth if it works. Just a thought. A good friend and his wife wanted to do that but she couldn't carry a child. Took them ten years and thousands of dollars to finally adopt a biracial child and it was dicey for the first six months after they got the child as the mother has the option to change her mind. Really a sad situation adoption can be at times.
In any case I hope God blesses you guys with a child.
In any case I hope God blesses you guys with a child.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:27 am to anc
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Pregnant with her sixth child
Her 37 year old mother is also pregnant at the same time.
Possibly by the same 45 year old father.
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The girl couldn't get over the fact that we lived in Mississippi
What kind of frickery is this? I guess I'd expect someone like that to be so stupid to think that poorly of someone who has their shite together but happens to live in Mississippi.
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:27 am to anc
I believe I would take that pic down.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:29 am to tigerfoot
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I believe I would take that pic down.
My bad. Emotional roller coaster and all. Clyde, would you mind deleting the pic out of your reply?
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:30 am to anc
Thank you.
Good luck moving forward in the adoption process. It's an emotional breakdown but is so worth it in the end.
Good luck moving forward in the adoption process. It's an emotional breakdown but is so worth it in the end.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:33 am to anc
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No - random man that got some mother/daughter action
And he's from GA?! ChefLeppard?
ETA: nurse is on it this AM!
This post was edited on 11/18/14 at 9:36 am
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:34 am to anc
Just started the process as well anc.
Looks like it's gonna be a long road.
I just knew I couldn't do "OPEN Adoption" It looks more like human trafficking than adoption. Trying to give kids a good home is hard to do these days it seems.
Alabama DHR system is screwed up. I don't want to go through the public process since if you get one bad kid who lies about your care from a foster...you can get blacklisted. Happened to a co-worker.
Looks like it's gonna be a long road.
I just knew I couldn't do "OPEN Adoption" It looks more like human trafficking than adoption. Trying to give kids a good home is hard to do these days it seems.
Alabama DHR system is screwed up. I don't want to go through the public process since if you get one bad kid who lies about your care from a foster...you can get blacklisted. Happened to a co-worker.
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