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re: A story of true trash. And heartbreak.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:36 am to anc
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:36 am to anc
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Then you have news like this today.
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We and a million other families would have taken both those kids off her hands if they were too difficult for her.
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The bodies of Gabriella Guerrero, 3, and Natalye Price, 1, were found in the Dogwood Villa Apartments in Quitman on July 24. The cause of death for both girls was listed as blunt force injuries, according to a preliminary autopsy.
Damn... just damn.
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:37 am to anc
Just a piece of worthless advice from someone who's been there - stay away from those stories. You will go crazy trying to understand. Focus on what you can do to increase your odds of adopting. Tell everyone you know of your wish to adopt and ask them to let you know if they hear of a potential candidate. Tell your church members, your wife's OB, friends, relatives, etc. I know people who adopted bc an OB knew they were looking and arranged a private meeting with the family and a teenaged patient. Another couple adopted when a friend of friend, etc in another state knew someone who was considering adoption. Every person who knows is another possible connection. And then, try to let go and let God.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 9:41 am to anc
You really need to email me or post your email and I'll email you. There is an easier way that I was TOTALLY unaware of when I went through what you are going through right now.
Depends on Mississippi law but it's worth you taking the time to hear it... Might make your life easier.
Depends on Mississippi law but it's worth you taking the time to hear it... Might make your life easier.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 11:46 am to anc
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Clyde, would you mind deleting the pic out of your reply?
Done
Posted on 11/18/14 at 11:54 am to anc
You know you've screwed the pooch when you're wearing a bullet-proof vest for your mugshot.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:10 pm to anc
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My wife is heartbroken
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22 years old Pregnant with her sixth child
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Her 37 year old mother is also pregnant
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Possibly by the same 45 year old father
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We live in Madison, the upper middle class suburb of Jackson
And your upset because you didn't get a kid from this bloodline? Sounds like a people mill.....
This post was edited on 11/18/14 at 12:15 pm
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:12 pm to swanny297
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Really? I am not sure that my wife would even consider this family as an adoption to pull from, sounds like a people mill...
You pretty much have to take what you can get from what I understand. I know a few couples who adopted and they all say it's expensive and very stressful because the mother can back out at anytime.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:16 pm to anc
Have you considered www.embryo.net?
We tried the adoption process with the whole home evaluation process and all. Many of the young mothers have done drugs at least in their first trimester.
Seriously check out embryo.net. I have the cutest and healthiest angel! GL
Honest to God, I'm sitting in their office right now planning on our 2nd one.
We tried the adoption process with the whole home evaluation process and all. Many of the young mothers have done drugs at least in their first trimester.
Seriously check out embryo.net. I have the cutest and healthiest angel! GL
Honest to God, I'm sitting in their office right now planning on our 2nd one.
This post was edited on 11/18/14 at 12:18 pm
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:16 pm to anc
Is the story the trash or the OP feeling need to go total passive aggressive and anonymously share on internet
This post was edited on 11/18/14 at 12:17 pm
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:44 pm to LSUGrrrl
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Just a piece of worthless advice from someone who's been there - stay away from those stories. You will go crazy trying to understand. Focus on what you can do to increase your odds of adopting. Tell everyone you know of your wish to adopt and ask them to let you know if they hear of a potential candidate. Tell your church members, your wife's OB, friends, relatives, etc. I know people who adopted bc an OB knew they were looking and arranged a private meeting with the family and a teenaged patient. Another couple adopted when a friend of friend, etc in another state knew someone who was considering adoption. Every person who knows is another possible connection. And then, try to let go and let God.
I am with on this LSUgrrrl.
My daughter is 5 and she is adopted. we used an adotption Lawyer instead of an agency. Best advice i can give. It was 600.00 uo front and no commentment after that. Heard he 2 hour spill and it was our choice to proceed after that. Ours was very easy but very stressful because the mother can change her mind at anytime. I know it is costly but remember 13500.00 tax credit is allowed for adoption so it is as bad as one thinks it is. if you want me to answer questions just ask in here or i will give youj my email. Best thing me wife and i did. We are not expection out first bioligical child in feb. we found out on our 10 wedding anniv.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:51 pm to anc
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No - random man that got some mother/daughter action. He can't be found so terminating parental rights was going to be a legal hassle.
That's a frickED up part of welfare right there. Basically, the mom(s) can't get welfare for the baby unless they can prove who the daddy is so they can go chase him to pay for it.
Sounds fricked up b/c it is.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:54 pm to LSUgolf
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LSUgolf
Great stuff. Thank you for posting that.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 12:57 pm to anc
My sister adopted two Chinese baby girls. Both were adopted as infants. The oldest is 18, and the youngest 14. They are beautuful, smart, bright girls. In fact, one is in her freshman year at LSU.
Both times, my sister and BIL had to go to China to get the girls. It is a drawn out process that needs approvals from both the US and China governments to work,
The whole experience couldn't have been better for my sister and the girls.
Both times, my sister and BIL had to go to China to get the girls. It is a drawn out process that needs approvals from both the US and China governments to work,
The whole experience couldn't have been better for my sister and the girls.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:00 pm to Artie Rome
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Artie Rome
welcome.
Anytime i can help a poster or someone out no problem.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:01 pm to anc
Not sure what your situation is that makes you want to adopt rather than have one of your own but for a fee, I can have you a kid ready to go in about 9 months
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:04 pm to anc
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Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:08 pm to LSUgolf
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LSUgolf
Can you share attorney's contact info?
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:10 pm to anc
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22 years old
Pregnant with her sixth child
Her 37 year old mother is also pregnant at the same time.
Possibly by the same 45 year old father.
Move on.
Try an adoption from another country.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:11 pm to anc
I'm so sorry tto hear this.
You are doing a good thing. You efforts will be rewarded.
You are doing a good thing. You efforts will be rewarded.
Posted on 11/18/14 at 1:11 pm to FelicianaTigerfan
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Not sure what your situation is that makes you want to adopt rather than have one of your own but for a fee, I can have you a kid ready to go in about 9 months
We actually looked into surrogacy. Woman in Arkansas was willing to carry my child (artificially inseminated) for $25k. My wife was game. I wanted to try the adoption route first.
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