re: Welp....here's a new one with the SO

Same here.


It's sad how many posters are saying they wouldn't say shite.

No way in hell would I let this slide unless she was a rich as frick OT 10.

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llshit. Like another poster mentioned

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Table manners are important.

Especially at business lunches or formal dinners

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To relatively few people. Those days of ridiculous social behaviors are archaic.

She sounds embarrassing to be around.

I'm not taking you out to eat if you eat like you're 4

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I want to talk about how to properly hold a utensil for when we go to restaurants in teh future

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is this what you said? Because that's pretty rude imo regardless of of her bad manners

Something along the lines of is there a reason you hold your fork the way you do? so you wouldn't come across as infantilizing but maybe more inquiring to start a discussion

Anywhere you want, stud.

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Something along the lines of is there a reason you hold your fork the way you do?

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I'd love to hear the answer to that question.


"Because I'm retarded"

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Cuddled on the couch

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Stopped reading.

This is somewhat stunning. I really can't recall ever seeing a woman hold a fork in that manner. How old is she? Does her family hold forks the same way?

You'd think she would have noticed by now that she doesn't hold her fork the way other people do.

In a year, you haven't mentioned it? I think I would have asked if there was a reason why she holds her fork that way since it's not the way most people do it. I would have asked in a manner that was curious rather than accusatory such that she's embarrassing, though it is embarrassing.

I don't get bothered by a lot of things, but that would bother me.

You mentioned there are other things about her that bother you, but that you have internalized yet you plan to marry her. You may be well served by reviewing those things before you take the big step.