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re: So you are not allowed to whip your kids now?
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:32 am to Hawkeye95
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:32 am to Hawkeye95
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you can spank your child, you just aren't allowed to whip your child.
Last month my 2 year old son ate about a foot of dry wall in the foyer. Third time he's done it this year. I whipped his arse with a fly swatter at least 20 times as hard as I could swing it.
Didn't leave any marks that I could see.
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Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:33 am to Zach
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Last month my 2 year old son ate about a foot of dry wall in the foyer. Third time he's done it this year. I whipped his arse with a fly swatter at least 20 times as hard as I could swing it.
arent you a little old to have a two year old?
edit: its a dog.
and your punishment will not be effective.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 10:34 am
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:35 am to Tigah in the ATL
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lol at all the people who are all "praise God I got beat"
You still acted up, didn't you? One would think the beatings woulda had more of an effect. All beatings do us teach kids to try to hide the things they do better.
OK, Mr. Liberal Douche on Soapbox ... I'll entertain your comment.
Yes, I am happy that my father and mother cared enough about me to teach me right from wrong and had the fortitude to show me that actions have consequences.
And, I have not one scar from it.
Not one day in my life have I doubted their love for me, unconditional.
I had plenty of friends that did not have such good parents ... many of them are now either dead, in jail, or leading unproductive lives in which they will never achieve close to their potential.
And, I promise you, there were many things that I did NOT do ... knowing that I would have to face my father (and his belt) if I got caught. That fear, coupled with flat-out knowing what I was contemplating was wrong ... often helped me make the right decision.
And ... it also taught me ... if you are going to bend the rules or go into a gray area ... do your best NOT to get caught, but if you do get caught, BE PREPARED TO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE. And don't even think about lying, because that will only make it worse and the truth will come out.
And that is where we run into my issues with people like you ... you believe in a no-accountability world....hypocritically always wanting to point a finger at others.
Zero Accountability ... we see it every day in this country.
But AD crossed the line with a child that young. And he is being held accountable for it.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:40 am to Hawkeye95
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edit: its a dog.
He does not like being referred to as a dog.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:42 am to navy
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navy
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I didn't endorse (or not endorse) what AD has done. I don't know enough about it ... plus, it is none of my business.
You didn't endorse his actions, but are grateful for every arse whipping you ever took ok, I stand corrected. If it's none of your business then why do you celebrate that you're not a tPOS due to the fact your parents taught you discipline and by hitting you.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 10:43 am
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:44 am to WeeWee
quote:did u see the marks on the child's legs/buttocks?
Or did AP just go overboard with? Can you use a belt?
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:47 am to skinny domino
I think most normal people believe a spanking is ok and will not harm a kid.
I just don't understand the fcktards who want to defend what AP did.
I just don't understand the fcktards who want to defend what AP did.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:47 am to GeeOH
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And I bet you a dollar that kid won't push his brother at dads house again!
That's because he's never going to daddy's again. Daddy's done.
Rock solid Christians like him and his bastard children by different mothers. I would prefer he show his kids how to be a good Christian by not fricking every ho in his presence. But I'm just funny that way.
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The guy is rick solid Christian who doesn't let his money exclude him from being front and center in his children's lives.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:47 am to LaFlyer
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due to the fact your parents taught you discipline and by hitting you.
My parents never hit me.
The only time my father ever threatened to hit me ... I was a grown man by then, probably 23 or so.
I'd returned home to visit after my first tour of duty/cruise on a guided missile destroyer.
All male crew ... the language on the ship was vulgar at best.
Sat down to breakfast and later stated, "Momma, these are some GOD-DAYUM good pancakes."
Daddy did not appreciate that sort of language at his breakfast table, not that type of language to my mother.
Daddy was right.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 10:49 am to navy
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navy
So you're not happy for every arse whipping then?
I need notes to keep up with your logic.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:00 am to LaFlyer
Pretty sad that if you whip anyone but a kid you get arrested for assault.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:03 am to WeeWee
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weeping willows is what I always hated. I liked a belt
my nephew gets the sad face spoon
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:04 am to LaFlyer
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So you're not happy for every arse whipping then?
Where did I back off that assertion, as it relates to me personally?
Sure ... at the time it happened, I wasn't too happy about getting my arse whipped ... but, as I got older and matured, I understood more and was thankful.
Now ... put that in your notes, and then go get your fricking shine box.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:17 am to navy
You don't have to hit your kid for them to be accountable. If you do it more than once a year you're probably not being very effective.
I spanked my son once, for lying. He is as honest as anyone I know.
Never spanked my daughter. When she was ~9 she knew she shouldn't take funland tickets from a malfunctioning machine.
People confuse shite so bad. Yes some kids probably need to be hit. Not all of them, and certainly they don't need to be marked up by it.
I spanked my son once, for lying. He is as honest as anyone I know.
Never spanked my daughter. When she was ~9 she knew she shouldn't take funland tickets from a malfunctioning machine.
People confuse shite so bad. Yes some kids probably need to be hit. Not all of them, and certainly they don't need to be marked up by it.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:19 am to navy
quote:my problem with people like you is you assume there is only a single right way in the world to do things.
And that is where we run into my issues with people like you ... you believe in a no-accountability world..
Spanking is maybe 40th on the list of what it takes to be a good parent.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:25 am to GeeOH
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And I bet you a dollar that kid won't push his brother at dads house again!
And the way to teach a kid how to not resort to violence is to resort to the most savage violence ?.
AP is despicable & there would be more outrage if he beat the family dog that way.
Using tactics used on him by his barely present convicted felon father isn't the way to treat his own child..
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 11:27 am
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:34 am to Tigah in the ATL
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my problem with people like you is you assume there is only a single right way in the world to do things.
I take no issue with parents who do not spank.
If they have a method that works for them that is within the bounds of reason, then good for them.
Like I said, my neighbors only have 1 kid and appear to be fricking it up royally, but that is their business. If the dude ever asks for advice from me, I will give it to him ... which would be, "The next time your kid tells you to shut up or throws a wild tantrum fit, you need to sit his arse down and explain that the next time he does it, you will spank him, and he will not like it. And then once he inevitably does it, you'd better back up what you said, and then afterwards, explain to him that you want him to be a good person and that his behavior is unacceptable."
I don't see anyone on here defending AD...not one.
I was somewhat skeptical until I saw the photos, but that is crossing the line, IMO.
Raising your kids is your business ... and raising mine is my business.
I'm sure we both use a variety of methods to try and produce solid, productive citizens.
Get this ... I also make my kids dress nicely and go to Mass on Sunday ... and, get this ... they also have to do the Sign of the Cross and say grace before every meal.
Heck ... I even fork out tens of thousand of dollars to send them to Catholic School!
Horrifying, isn't it?
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:40 am to The Spleen
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Sorry, but putting your hands on another human inflict harm is wrong, no matter the other person or relationship.
Even if prevents even greater harm? Someone posted earlier that they spanked their child for repeatedly running into the street. They were wrong? I guess getting ran over is much better than a butt whipping?
What a crazy messed up world we live in.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:42 am to WeeWee
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Well his son started first grade last month and has been to the principle's office 4 times already. That little boy is a smartass and shitass and a cry baby
Spare the rod, spoil the child
The child is much better off than being spanked. It does not matter if he continues this way in life and all the problems this will bring him. At least his sensitive hind end has never been spanked.
Posted on 9/15/14 at 11:52 am to notiger1997
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The link has the word testicles in it so it may get picked up by some workplace filters. It was written about there being a cut from the switch on the poor kids scrote. FTR I am pro spankings, this however is not a spanking. Far more than 15 spots, some on fronts of his legs and pretty evenly spaced. He either raged on the kid or methodically tortured him. There are other pics of welps all up his back too.
The link has the word testicles in it so it may get picked up by some workplace filters. It was written about there being a cut from the switch on the poor kids scrote. FTR I am pro spankings, this however is not a spanking. Far more than 15 spots, some on fronts of his legs and pretty evenly spaced. He either raged on the kid or methodically tortured him. There are other pics of welps all up his back too.
This post was edited on 9/15/14 at 11:54 am
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