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The evolution of our friends

Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:22 pm
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:22 pm
Naturally as progress through life, we're bound to have old friends fade away and new ones emerge.

What are y'all's experience with this? I am still in good contact with my close high school friends. Now (college) I've got a few circles of friends that I spend most of my time with. Some really surprise me as far as how we met, and how we connect, but I think I'm pretty happy where I'm at.

Whatcha say?
Posted by Jim Rockford
Member since May 2011
98180 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:24 pm to
The only people I'm really close to are my college friends. I never had much in common with the people I grew up with, and the people I've met after college are acquaintances, not friends.
Posted by Salmon
On the trails
Member since Feb 2008
83556 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:25 pm to
I've had friends that I have lost contact with after HS, college, jobs, etc

We were good friends, then moved on, and slowly lost contact, only to be replaced by new friends.

I still have my 2-3 best friends that I have had since I was a kid. We obviously don't see each other as much as we used to as we all live in different cities, but we still stay in regular contact. I imagine I'll keep in contact with them the rest of my life while the other friends will come and go.
Posted by BlackleafBaller
Member since Oct 2012
1863 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:35 pm to
You guys here are all the friends I need
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
Member since Oct 2011
75703 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:36 pm to
:')
Posted by PaBon
UPT 17th W/D
Member since Sep 2014
1891 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:38 pm to
Close with about 7 or 8 guys from grammar school era still and a couple from college. I consider myself pretty lucky. We all maintain contact on the reg and have taken opposite career paths. It's good to have a core group of bro's. ...To each his/her own I suppose.
Posted by 13SaintTiger
Isle of Capri
Member since Sep 2011
18315 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:38 pm to
I still like to call my closest friends the ones I played football with in high school. We don't talk or hangout like we use to obviously because the different paths we took in life but with Facebook and the like it's much easier to keep in contact. The love is still there.
Posted by Grim
Member since Dec 2013
12302 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:39 pm to
Does my mom count as a friend
Posted by Black n Gold
Member since Feb 2009
15409 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:39 pm to
quote:

The only people I'm really close to are my college friends. I never had much in common with the people I grew up with,


Some of the guys in my group of friends from childhood are still close. I catch hell every time I run into one of them. I have to remind them that I have a great wife, kid, job, and new friends. All things they don't have.
Posted by 7thWardTiger
Richmond, Texas
Member since Nov 2009
24670 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:40 pm to
quote:

I've had friends that I have lost contact with after HS, college, jobs, etc

We were good friends, then moved on, and slowly lost contact, only to be replaced by new friends.


This for me as well. I would add friends from jail in there as well.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63266 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:42 pm to
Unfortunately, I haven't really made any close friends since college. Just acquaintances.
Posted by JawjaTigah
Bizarro World
Member since Sep 2003
22499 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:43 pm to
Friends? Somebody explain?
Posted by Slippy
Across the rivah
Member since Aug 2005
6578 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 4:51 pm to
I had a friend once. But I forgot his name.

Get off my lawn.
Posted by LSU alum wannabe
Katy, TX
Member since Jan 2004
26989 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:00 pm to
One childhood friend who I still stay in contact with. College had a good core group of friends who remained through my 20's. Still regularly talk to 3 of them. The rest I see once a year at fantasy football draft. Old now with a house and kids and have the same. About 3-4 core friends. One is a mess who drinks too damned much. He moved off a few miles but I make no effort to go see him as I feel guilty. If we hang out it is an excuse for him to double his alcohol intake.
Posted by BlackleafBaller
Member since Oct 2012
1863 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:13 pm to
I didn't want to put in the effort to making friends in college, so instead I joined a frat and just paid for them.
Posted by Napoleon
Kenna
Member since Dec 2007
69071 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:16 pm to
I have a group of friends who I have been close with since I was six or seven. A lot of newer friends, and then others who came and I lost contact with, but the people I see the most now were the people I played with in the neighborhood.
Posted by SEClint
New Orleans, LA/Portland, OR
Member since Nov 2006
48769 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:19 pm to
La familia es todo
Posted by AndyJ
Member since Jul 2008
2754 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:21 pm to
Friends with a couple of guys from HS, but I consider my college fiends my best ones, even though we live in different areas. I have some med school and residency friends still. Now that I'm back in NOLA after having moved all over the country, I honestly don't even feel like making new ones (I'm married with kids, though).
Posted by QuietTiger
New Orleans
Member since Dec 2003
26256 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:28 pm to
quote:

Naturally as progress through life

quote:

I am still in good contact with my close high school friends. Now (college)

No offense, but I would think some real time will tell you more.
I still live within 5 miles of some high school friends, but only speak to them every few years. One, I interact with weekly. I'm talking 40+ years of friendship.
Posted by Geauxtiga
No man's land
Member since Jan 2008
34377 posts
Posted on 12/14/14 at 5:32 pm to
For married couples friends can be seasonal. During basketball season we did things with other parents whose kids played basketball. Likewise during softball season.

Work has an effect on this too.
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