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Buddy making his fiance sign a prenup that says no children.

Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:47 am
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:47 am
Any lawyers out there that can explain to me how this would work. I've asked a lawyer friend of mine in real life but he refused to comment. Everyone else I asked says its unenforceable. Its also extremely fricked up because she is dying for children but obsessed with him so she'd sign some shite like that.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:48 am to
Well than she is the idiot for staying with someone that clearly does NOT want kids when she clearly does.
Posted by mikelbr
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:49 am to
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Well than she is the idiot for staying with someone that clearly does NOT want kids when she clearly does

This makes me sad.
Posted by LfcSU3520
Arizona
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:49 am to
I'm not up to date on my memes, but if there's one that covers white trash, it would be applicable here
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:51 am to
You think she thinks he'll really change his mind later?


What the guy is doing is a total dick move and just wrong imo. Be a man and just say you don't ever want kids and you will never change your mind and that if she can't accept that to give the ring back.
Posted by mikelbr
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Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:53 am to
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Be a man and just say you don't ever want kids and you will never change your mind and that if she can't accept that to give the ring

I changed my mind with my gf.
This post was edited on 5/15/22 at 11:23 pm
Posted by UncleRuckus
Member since Feb 2013
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:54 am to
I'm sure they'll grow old together
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:55 am to
Point is....she shouldn't be saying I do to someone that isn't willing to give her what she wants...children.



You can't compromise on that issue. You either do or don't. Yes...some people do change their mind later on. But to marry someone in hopes this will happen...is a stupid gamble.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18552 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:55 am to
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white trash, it would be applicable here



I agree. the dude comes from a very good family that has $$$ but he has not lived up to his potential one iota and is working odd jobs.
Posted by lsuwontonwrap
Member since Aug 2012
34147 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:56 am to
Sounds like your buddy's wife is going to have to start poking holes in condoms. Or "forget" to take birth control. I always "lol" when the guy doesn't want kids and the woman does. If a woman wants kids, she WILL get pregnant. Had a friend of mine go through that. Though, it all worked out for the best, because he's crazy about his son.
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:57 am to
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You can't compromise on that issue. You either do or don't. Yes...some people do change their mind later on. But to marry someone in hopes this will happen...is a stupid gamble


I edited. Totally agree with you. When you marry someone, the chance of children is never a mistake.
This post was edited on 3/23/14 at 1:58 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:58 am to
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If a woman wants kids, she WILL get pregnant.



This is wrong as well. I have no respect for women who use this tactic.
This post was edited on 3/23/14 at 1:59 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 1:59 am to
OMG mikel....we agree on something
Posted by Joe Joe Joe
Givin' Him the Business
Member since Oct 2007
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:03 am to
What does the prenup say happens if she does get pregnant?

This is all
Posted by mikelbr
Baton Rouge
Member since Apr 2008
47463 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:06 am to
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OMG mikel....we agree on something
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I'm quite the profound character, mama.
Posted by athenslife101
Member since Feb 2013
18552 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:10 am to
I have no clue. They mentioned it in passing. She has to give up the thought of children and he has to give up some stupid stuff. It's not an even trade. I just don't see how it would be enforceable in a freaking prenup. My lawyer friend in the past said that prenups are so easy to get around that they're a waste of time in his opinion.
Posted by I'mCastorTroy
Member since Dec 2012
144 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:13 am to
Your friend is a bitch for not giving legal advice freely and off the record.
Posted by KBeezy
Baton Rouge
Member since Dec 2004
13529 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:19 am to
Why would your lawyer friend refuse to answer your question on how it would work?
Posted by NATidefan
Two hours North of Birmingham
Member since Dec 2008
35953 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:22 am to
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Be a man and just say you don't ever want kids and you will never change your mind and that if she can't accept that to give the ring back.


Pretty sure that's what he is doing by having her sign a prenup that says no children...

To be honest is not really a dick move at all IMO.. he's being completely honest. Sadly, some women are evil, will marry for money, get pregnant on purpose and then divorce a guy for paycheck and child support....

Lets be honest.. condoms suck, and women have multiple more choices for preventative childbirth than men...

If the guy doesn't want children, or isn't sure he does, then why should he have to undergo surgery to make sure he prevents it in case said wife decides she wants to stop taking the pill and lie about it.
This post was edited on 3/23/14 at 2:24 am
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 3/23/14 at 2:24 am to
But he knows she really wants children. He is totally ok with making her give up something she wants to marry him.

When you truly love someone....you want them to be happy.

A real man would break it off and tell her to find a man that wants to be a parent as badly as she does. He would do that cause he loves her and realizes how important children are to her.



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