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re: Buddy making his fiance sign a prenup that says no children.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:23 am to athenslife101
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:23 am to athenslife101
This is silly and likely bullshite.
So what happens if he knocks her up?
Why doesn't he get snipped if he is so against having kids?
ETA: He can't just contract away paternal obligations.
So what happens if he knocks her up?
Why doesn't he get snipped if he is so against having kids?
ETA: He can't just contract away paternal obligations.
This post was edited on 3/23/14 at 7:27 am
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Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:32 am to pooponsaban
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ETA: He can't just contract away paternal obligations.
He may be looking to secure his assets when in the future she decides to divorce him. She will pursue his assets in the divorce and his prenup, just like the marriage, is a contract. A contract stating that children where never an option and thereby not grounds for divorce. Just a thought.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:36 am to athenslife101
More people should be doing this.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:44 am to H.M. Murdock
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He may be looking to secure his assets when in the future she decides to divorce him. She will pursue his assets in the divorce and his prenup, just like the marriage, is a contract. A contract stating that children where never an option and thereby not grounds for divorce. Just a thought.
I'm not real up on family law, but I honestly don't think you could contract for such a thing in Louisiana. I could be wrong, though. I know Louisisana does not allow courts to recognize claims for wrongful births, and I'd assert this might fall under that.
The question I have, however, is why get married?
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:48 am to Y.A. Tittle
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The question I have, however, is why get married?
Because if they get married he'll love her more and love her forever. Duh.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:49 am to Y.A. Tittle
This guy is a pioneer if you ask me. Sounds like he has laid on the table what he wants and doesnt want legally? Ball is in her court.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:50 am to athenslife101
As much of a dick move as this is on his part, the blame here lies on the woman. If she wants kids, why would she marry someone who absolutely, to the point of actually drawing up a legal document, does not? Why don't these two go out & find compatable matches & not base their marriage on a legal document? Or she could add a clause in the document stating she will agree with his "no kid clause" by adding a fool proof "no doing what causes children" safety net.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:54 am to josh336
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This guy is a pioneer if you ask me. Sounds like he has laid on the table what he wants and doesnt want legally? Ball is in her court.
This! I don't understand why people keep saying this is a dick move. Sensitives gonna sensitive I guess.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 7:55 am to athenslife101
this marriage won't last too long.
what happens if she accidentally gets pregnant? will your buddy demand an abortion?
what happens if she accidentally gets pregnant? will your buddy demand an abortion?
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:11 am to drexyl
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Did I ever tell you that I tried to name my last kid "Maximus", but my wife wouldn't let me?
Probably best because the only Maximus I know is the one off this site and he's a fricking prick
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:14 am to TIGERFANZZ
The blame lies on both of them for thinking the marriage will ever work in the first place when they clearly want two different things.
She should have walked long ago and he should have never had to come up with such a document in the first place if he was dating someone on the same page as him when it comes to the biggest topic of a marriage.
She should have walked long ago and he should have never had to come up with such a document in the first place if he was dating someone on the same page as him when it comes to the biggest topic of a marriage.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:27 am to lsunurse
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The blame lies on both of them
No, he listed his requirements. She is accepting. She is agreeing to a contract and will likely try to back out. He will likely adhere to said contract.
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She should have walked long ago
She can walk at any point prior to the wedding.
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he should have never had to come up with such a document in the first place if he was dating someone on the same page as him when it comes to the biggest topic of a marriage.
He put his wishes out there and on paper. She can make her choice.
The ball is entirely in her court. This gentlemen simply laid down his terms outright and prior to the contract execution (marriage).
This goes back to that old saying that women expect man to magically change after marriage.
This post was edited on 3/23/14 at 8:29 am
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:36 am to H.M. Murdock
A pre-nup has absolutely nothing to do with what happens once you're married. Basically he is saying, before the marriage, there will be no children. It's a pre-nup, hence, pre marriage. Anything after the marriage takes place is post-nup. As long as they are married when she gets pregnant, she is not violation the contract.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:41 am to H.M. Murdock
If any of this is true I fully expect the woman to get pregnant and take her chances in court later if need be. She's getting her lawyer ($$) and she'll get a kid outta him.
A determined woman will get what she wants.
A determined woman will get what she wants.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 8:43 am to athenslife101
Your buddy needed a piece of legal paper to force his fiance not to have kids is a silly beta move. Just tell her like a bauce. Don't get a third party to do it for you.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 9:00 am to athenslife101
i hope that prenup has a severability clause 
Posted on 3/23/14 at 9:02 am to lsunurse
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A real man would break it off and tell her to find a man that wants to be a parent as badly as she does. He would do that cause he loves her and realizes how important children are to her.
That is total shite. He is the one being honest and upfront with her. She is the one with the burden to break it off if she truly wants kids. She obviously has some low self esteem issue or is delusional to agree to stay with him after this.
Posted on 3/23/14 at 9:03 am to athenslife101
Why doesn't your friend get a vasectomy and be done with it? It makes it that much easier than a prenup
Posted on 3/23/14 at 9:04 am to H.M. Murdock
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He may be looking to secure his assets when in the future she decides to divorce him. She will pursue his assets in the divorce and his prenup, just like the marriage, is a contract. A contract stating that children where never an option and thereby not grounds for divorce. Just a thought.
i don't think you need "grounds" for divorces anymore. you certainly don't in Louisiana (i don't know what state this hypo is in). and his assets are at risk if a child is involved, regardless whether he's married or not. child support and marital/community assets are not really teh same thing
Posted on 3/23/14 at 9:12 am to athenslife101
The smart thing for the guy to do is get snipped. He would never have to worry about kids. I doubt any judge would absolve the guy from child support based on prenup
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