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Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:33 pm to ithad2bme
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The adults in these situations should focus on the kids instead of being immature and selfish by making a big deal about something trivial like a name.
At one time I was the wicked stepfather. I told the kids they could call me by my first name. That made their mother nervous because she wanted the kids to show adults respect.
So, instead of calling me "a-hole", the kids called me "Mr. a-hole". That was okay with the mother but it made me nervous. I always thought "Mr. a-hole" was my father.....
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:39 pm to trom83
no
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:42 pm to Napoleon
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:44 pm to Open Dore Policy
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My stepkids were 3 and 1 when my wife and I married.
was she pregnant when you started dating?
I couldn't imagine marrying someone with kids that young
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:47 pm to yellowfin
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was she pregnant when you started dating?
I couldn't imagine marrying someone with kids that young
I guess trying to rope in a man was more of a priority than settling into motherhood and not bring strange men into her young kids' lives. There's a names for those kinds of women......needy and desperate.
This post was edited on 12/2/15 at 2:49 pm
Posted on 12/2/15 at 2:48 pm to yellowfin
quote:FIFY
I couldn't imagine marrying someone with kids
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:01 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
My son calls his step-dad "Dad", but hey what can you do. I pay child support and private school for him, lol big daddy pays all the bills. But the other guy is an ok dude and treats my son right. I look at that he has four parents who love him very much. But I also instilled in my son that he call my wife "Mommy". It also helps that his last name is mine and my wife's and we have his only sibling.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:01 pm to trom83
There can be more than one Dad but only one father.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:33 pm to GreatLakesTiger24
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:34 pm to tigerpimpbot
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Sabi or dojo?
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:42 pm to Dam Guide
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Why can't she call them both paw-paw? Both my grandparents are paw to me. Since they are hardly ever at the same location, it's not very confusing.
Sorry for the bump. Just saw this.
She just didn't want to. I'm not going to logic my daughter into something she's very emotional about. She's very aware that she has a new family and her other family. She's completely free to discuss whatever she wants about them and call whomever whatever.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:45 pm to sicboy
This was mainly about woman making their kids call their boyfriend/husband "dad" when they're not the biological dad. It's kind of makes them look needy and desperate.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:47 pm to Upperdecker
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That's a completely different scenario if the kid doesn't have a Dad. We're talking about a divorce and the Mom remarrying and having the kid call the stepdad Dad
She'll always have a dad. That's how that works. Regardless of how much of a scumbag the bio dad is, he's always her father and she doesn't ever let us forget that. Not every in a mean way, though.
Again, if she's making the kid do something that's another story. But if the kid is now living with this new guy and feels like calling this person dad "as well", then get over it. It's not like there is only one spot in that kids life for a father, especially in this day and age.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:48 pm to trom83
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This was mainly about woman making their kids call their boyfriend/husband "dad" when they're not the biological dad. It's kind of makes them look needy and desperate.
OP is edited, but wasn't it talking about a fiance (or fiancee, whatever it is)?
Posted on 12/2/15 at 3:50 pm to sicboy
If it works for greg evigan, it works for me.
Posted on 12/2/15 at 11:02 pm to yellowfin
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was she pregnant when you started dating?
I meant dating. Y'all go to hell. Lol
Posted on 12/2/15 at 11:06 pm to trom83
If my son calls another man dad, I better be dead.
Posted on 12/3/15 at 12:00 am to trom83
Only if he's ok with me fricking my baby mama when I want to. You make my son call you daddy, I frick your wife. That's the rule.
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