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re: Women not changing last name after marriage

Posted on 11/30/16 at 10:56 am to
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 10:56 am to
quote:

A man marrying a woman who won't take his name or even who hyphenates (which is actually somehow worse to me) is literally no different than watching in the corner while She takes the BBC.


Was this post intended to make any sort of sense?
Posted by TigerNlc
Chocolate City
Member since Jun 2006
32508 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 10:57 am to
quote:

Most common thing I've seen lately is women changing their last names when married but also changing their middle name to their maiden name.

Lately? That's what I have seen done my whole life. I thought this was the norm.
Posted by YoungsvilleTiger210
Youngsville
Member since Oct 2015
214 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 10:57 am to
Pretty common for Asians not to change last names.
Posted by CorporateTiger
Member since Aug 2014
10700 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:01 am to
Reveal that he dreams of BBC
Posted by Hawkeye95
Member since Dec 2013
20293 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:02 am to
its pretty common for women over the age of 30 who have a career.

my wife was the last in her family with her family name, I told her to keep it if she wanted. she didn't.
This post was edited on 11/30/16 at 11:02 am
Posted by T Blair
Member since Feb 2013
409 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:04 am to
So, all it boils down to is that she thinks her family has a more prominent last name than your family does. Or, she's a doctor and has an established practice. The doctor thing is the only reason I think a woman should ever keep her last name.
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33948 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:05 am to
quote:

1. Is this a thing now?


Yes it is, especially if the woman has a career/reputation of her own. If she changes her name, she has to work pretty hard to revamp her reputation based on the new name. Easier to keep it.

quote:

2. How much of a beta does the man have to be to even agree to this?


I'm pretty sure you wouldn't be able to land a woman with a brain, so this won't be an issue for you.
Posted by TxTiger82
Member since Sep 2004
33948 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:06 am to
quote:

A man marrying a woman who won't take his name or even who hyphenates (which is actually somehow worse to me) is literally no different than watching in the corner while She takes the BBC.


Was this post intended to make any sort of sense?



Faux-alpha posturing on an anonymous message board.
Posted by TbirdSpur2010
ALAMO CITY
Member since Dec 2010
134026 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:12 am to
quote:

Reveal that he dreams of BBC


Rather awkward
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129037 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 11:15 am to
No it was Lynn


When my mom did the first and middle name callout (you know...when she was really pissed at you) I always felt like it made me sound like some redneck hillbilly child.
Posted by Wayne Campbell
Aurora, IL
Member since Oct 2011
6385 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 12:17 pm to
quote:

when a man keeps his last name after he gets married, i get the impression he's more committed to his old family (mommy and daddy) than the new family he just formed. just my opinion though i know the libs feel differently.


Amazing how a few letter changes can alter a sentence.

quote:

i believe that when you (man or woman) gets married, the new family you just formed becomes your number one priority.


Then maybe people should create a whole new last name when they get married, you know, to symbolize how committed you are to one another and detached from your previous family.

My sister kept her last name because our last name is fairly unique, and she didn't want to become one of a million Smiths.
Posted by TFS4E
Washington DC
Member since Nov 2008
13240 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 12:19 pm to
quote:

Yeah that looks nothing like him I promise

Duh, he uses his pic in his avatar


Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
16241 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 12:51 pm to
The Woman:

vegan
lesbian
granola
SJW
democrat

The Man:

democrat
cuck
Posted by SECdragonmaster
Order of the Dragons
Member since Dec 2013
16241 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 12:53 pm to
quote:

A man marrying a woman who won't take his name or even who hyphenates (which is actually somehow worse to me) is literally no different than watching in the corner while She takes the BBC.


This times a billion.

Preach brother.

Preach.
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13389 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:01 pm to
quote:

Reveal that he dreams of BBC
Yeah I'm pretty sure that anyone who casually accuses others of being BBC cucks is a person who watches way too much BBC porn and is projecting

edit: like the guy who posted above me
This post was edited on 11/30/16 at 1:02 pm
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:09 pm to
quote:

Usually women who have established careers.




This. My wife kept her maiden name as she had a successful veterinary practice for 12 years prior to our marriage. It's never bothered me one bit.
Posted by LNCHBOX
70448
Member since Jun 2009
84284 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:11 pm to
quote:

There is no way in hell I want to jump through the hurdles of changing the name on all her accounts, documents and legal files. F THAT



It took my wife and I less than a week to get everything changed over. It wasn't particularly difficult, and we could have done it faster had we chosen to.

ETA: Having said that, I have no problem if a woman chooses to keep her maiden name.
This post was edited on 11/30/16 at 1:13 pm
Posted by Hog on the Hill
AR
Member since Jun 2009
13389 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:12 pm to
quote:

This. My wife kept her maiden name as she had a successful veterinary practice for 12 years prior to our marriage. It's never bothered me one bit.
The rational decision you made with your wife offends my fragile sense of masculinity and therefore I declare that you are a cuckold!
Posted by Loungefly85
Lafayette
Member since Jul 2016
7930 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:34 pm to
quote:

Lately? That's what I have seen done my whole life. I thought this was the norm.


I can't think of anyone my parents or grandparents age that did. Maybe one or two if I really looked into it.
Posted by tigerinthebueche
Member since Oct 2010
36791 posts
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:43 pm to
I may very well be a cuck . Likewise, I might have a side piece as well. Doubt her keeping her last name had anything to do with it. If 50% of marriages end in divorce, i can promise you 98% of the divorced wives took their husbands last name the day they married. Still wont prevent them from sucking another guy's dick. Nor will that expensive wedding ring he bought her.

After 15 years of "wedded bliss" I can promise you the name thing is baby shite compared to the other issues that we've dealt with.
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