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re: Women not changing last name after marriage
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:49 pm to LNCHBOX
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:49 pm to LNCHBOX
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It took my wife and I less than a week to get everything changed over. It wasn't particularly difficult, and we could have done it faster had we chosen to.
People in medical fields have professional licensing, multiple insurance panels, liability insurance, etc to change. In addition, you have a whole new history to create. I get why some professions don't change their names. As long as the kids will take the man's name and the wife is fine using the husband's name socially, who the hell cares?
ETA: It's a bitch just changing an address for these things, never the less a name. You have to provide all sorts of documentation in steps. Change legally, then change on your license, change on your bank accounts and business license. Then, once those are done, submit changes to the insurance companies you accept....it is a serious PITA
This post was edited on 11/30/16 at 1:52 pm
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Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:50 pm to T Blair
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So, all it boils down to is that she thinks her family has a more prominent last name than your family does. Or, she's a doctor and has an established practice. The doctor thing is the only reason I think a woman should ever keep her last name.
Nope. I'm old school and if the wife wouldn't of taken my last name, all deals off. I think it would/should be a deal breaker all together.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:51 pm to Tiger in NY
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People in medical fields have professional licensing, multiple insurance panels, liability insurance, etc to change. In addition, you have a whole new history to create. I get why some professions don't change their names. As long as the kids will take the man's name and the wife is fine using the husband's name socially, who the hell cares?
I said I have no problem with it. But the process isn't all that hard, but again I fully understand why some would choose not to.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:52 pm to Honky Lips
This is even trashier than fake Christmas trees.
I would never be involved with a girl who would even consider this.
I would never be involved with a girl who would even consider this.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:55 pm to LNCHBOX
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I said I have no problem with it. But the process isn't all that hard, but again I fully understand why some would choose not to.
It would take about a year to go through much of what I described above. I know you aren't stating issues with it. I am just offering more detail after having done some research. The insurance panel thing and the reputation are the biggest obstacles.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 1:56 pm to Honky Lips
Goddamn geezer, is this what makes you mad these days? Who freaking cares? It's their names, let them keep whatever. A girl tells me she wants to keep her name, okay cool, end of discussion. It's a fricking name.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 2:00 pm to Tiger in NY
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People in medical fields have professional licensing, multiple insurance panels, liability insurance, etc to change. In addition, you have a whole new history to create. I get why some professions don't change their names. As long as the kids will take the man's name and the wife is fine using the husband's name socially, who the hell cares?
More bullshite.
My daughter is a DVM and had no problem taking her husbands name.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 2:03 pm to fishfighter
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My daughter is a DVM and had no problem taking her husbands name.
A Veterinarian? How many insurance panels (Blue Cross/Blue Shield, Cigna, Tri Care, etc.) does she accept?
Posted on 11/30/16 at 2:13 pm to fishfighter
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More Bull shite.
My daughter is a DVM and had no problem taking her husbands name
She own her own practice before they married?
Posted on 11/30/16 at 2:21 pm to TFS4E
Roger would laugh in the face of any man who said he'd be ok with his wife keeping her name 
This post was edited on 11/30/16 at 2:22 pm
Posted on 11/30/16 at 3:41 pm to knowingabyss
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is this what makes you mad these days?
Who's mad? What did I say to give you the impression I was mad? I specifically said I didn't give a shite what the couple does and that this was a discussion on what people thought about it.
Reading is hard.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 3:50 pm to Hog on the Hill
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Yeah I'm pretty sure that anyone who casually accuses others of being BBC cucks is a person who watches way too much BBC porn and is projecting
People on this board definitely spend too much time fixated on BBC. For some reason they bring it up in every thread where it is even tangentially related.
If your girl is gonna whore around behind your back, making her take your name isn't going to stop that.
Posted on 11/30/16 at 3:51 pm to Honky Lips
My mom never legally changed her name but always went by Mrs. (fathers last name)
Posted on 11/30/16 at 3:53 pm to tigerinthebueche
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She own her own practice before they married?
personally don't care one way or another, my wife practiced in a family law firm right out of LSU law school with her father, two brothers and her sister and she took my name
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:16 am to whoisnickdoobs
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Gender equality bro. Get with the times. It's almost 2017.
No, just another form of male castration. Coming from someone who has gotten married in the past two weeks.
My wife joked and asked what if she wanted to keep her last name, and I told her she could if she wanted to stay single.
While I'm at it, the hyphenated last names annoy me. Cucks.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:23 am to Nutriaitch
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are they in Arkansas?
if so the guy is probably marrying his sister so they already have the same last name.
Shut it
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:33 am to Honky Lips
If wife is established professional then her name is part of her brand. Only insecure men would have issues
Posted on 12/1/16 at 5:49 am to Honky Lips
I got married in September. Wife still hasn't changed her last name. Don't really give a shite. Least of my worries since the flood.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 6:03 am to terriblegreen
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I don't think it's beta at all for the guy. I wouldn't give a shite if my hypothetical wife wanted to keep her name.
If I have to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 6:06 am to Hawkeye95
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Hawkeye95
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I told her to keep it if she wanted
Yeah, but you are a complete and total sissy, so..
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