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re: What would you do if you found out your baby wasn't yours?

Posted on 2/5/15 at 7:33 am to
Posted by LucasP
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Posted on 2/5/15 at 7:33 am to
Join the Peace Corps and go clear my head for a couple years. Depending on how that went, I'd return a better person or plot out a Monte Cristo-style revenge.
Posted by Moustache
GEAUX TIGERS
Member since May 2008
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Posted on 2/5/15 at 7:49 am to
quote:

In OPs case where it was reasonable to conclude that he was the father (long-term, supposed exclusive relationship), but was deceived into thinking so, no way that there's no out for that



Tell that to the courts. They frick the men over bad. Usually you still have to pay some type of support because you assumed the father role.
Posted by ZereauxSum
Lot 23E
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 2/5/15 at 8:21 am to
Not married? And a month old?

See ya.
Posted by Mung
NorCal
Member since Aug 2007
9054 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 8:45 am to
better than a year and a week
Posted by KG6
Member since Aug 2009
10920 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 8:56 am to
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if he signed the birth certificate


I'm pretty sure I never had to sign a birth certificate. I may just be forgetting, but I don't think I officially signed off on anything.

I can tell you that when my son was born, my first reaction was "that's not my son". Didn't look remotely like me or my wife for that matter. After I held him, that went out the window and it was my son. That would be a tough pill to swallow for sure. Luckily after about a month, you could tell he was mine.
Posted by specchaser
lafayette
Member since Feb 2008
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Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:04 am to
not a family law attorney...but in LA if married I believed presumed to be father. Also, being a birth certificate can have some legal weight as well. Think the non-father has to disavow paternity and there's a limited amount of time this can be done. maybe our family law experts can weigh in...but it can be a frick deal for the non-father
Posted by Chad504boy
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Member since Feb 2005
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Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:11 am to
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a month isnt shite. Leave and not look back



I wouldn't say a month is isn't shite but its quite shite compared to holding the hand of "your" 3 yr old little girl after being told she's not yours. Kill the bitch is what you should do.
Posted by Mung
NorCal
Member since Aug 2007
9054 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:20 am to
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I know someone who found out his kid wasn't his when she was 10.

They had broken up and in a fight over custody years later she told him and then they tested.


That is the true depth of evil that lurks in a woman's heart.
Posted by Ace Midnight
Between sanity and madness
Member since Dec 2006
89493 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:22 am to
All of my kids look just like me.



The child's mother would be the target of my wrath, not the child, though.
Posted by swamplynx
Lake Chuck
Member since Oct 2014
1239 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:22 am to
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on-father has to disavow


he has a year to file from the date of the child's birth. With the DNA test done it should be pretty in and out. like the whore mother.

eta: clear up timeline
This post was edited on 2/5/15 at 9:24 am
Posted by Mung
NorCal
Member since Aug 2007
9054 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:23 am to
quote:

there's a limited amount of time this can be done


1 year from birth
Posted by Octopussy
Member since Jan 2006
57 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:34 am to
quote:

What would you do if you found out your baby wasn't yours?


I'd wonder how that damned thing got up in my pussy in the first place.
Posted by GRTiger
On a roof eating alligator pie
Member since Dec 2008
62869 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:42 am to
quote:

he has a year to file from the date of the child's birth.


That's a long time. My son looks mostly like my wife, and I always joke with her about it. He's just about 9 months, and at this point, my lawyer fees would go to making sure the real father never made contact (or knew about him) and divorce. No way I walk out on this kid at this point.

A month is already on the brink, although if I wasn't married to the woman and it had only been a year, I'd probably jet.
Posted by soccerfüt
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Member since May 2013
65556 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:45 am to
Here's a family this happened to:

This post was edited on 2/5/15 at 9:45 am
Posted by swamplynx
Lake Chuck
Member since Oct 2014
1239 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:47 am to
I know what you're saying. When I have kids I'll be the best damn father I can be. But if I found out that my wife cheated on me and the kid wasn't mine, 6 months after the baby was born, I will most likely bolt. I couldn't stay with my wife after that, and I'm not paying for another man's child.

I could handle a woman with a child from before we are together but not when she lies and tells me it's mine.
Posted by StarkRebel
Member since Sep 2014
2175 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 9:49 am to
Posted by Gulf Coast Tiger
Ms Gulf Coast
Member since Jan 2004
18660 posts
Posted on 2/5/15 at 10:23 am to
quote:

a man X dates woman of this story, for a long time. during that time woman is made pregnant by X. BOTH before and after dating X woman dates person of interest Z. person of interest Z ends up with the mother, X is out of the picture, but after the birth Z finds out he is not a blood relative. we are asked, what would WE do if we were in the shoes of Z?


Y did this become a Algebra question?
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