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re: What do you guys do about depression?

Posted on 10/24/16 at 5:57 pm to
Posted by RogerTheShrubber
Juneau, AK
Member since Jan 2009
262457 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 5:57 pm to
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3) Routine - if you dont have one, make one.


This is the reason many people get into a depression.
Posted by boosiebadazz
Member since Feb 2008
80481 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:01 pm to
I'm super stressed at work and in a rut because of it, so this thread came at a perfect time. Thanks for all of those who responded.
Posted by shutterspeed
MS Gulf Coast
Member since May 2007
63747 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:02 pm to
1. Paxil.
2. Career change
3. Do something out of your comfort zone. Something that others might consider to be not practical. Join a local jiu-jitsu club.
4. Get sun. Be outside. Walk.
5. Paxil.

Good luck, man. We've all been there to one degree or another.
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53419 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:03 pm to
Play golf
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30575 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:03 pm to
Go hang out at a Chemo clinic. Watch fathers and mother's sitting next to their dying teen-aged son's and daughters. You'll be thankful for what you have and understand why you have no real reason for being depressed.
Posted by dukke v
PLUTO
Member since Jul 2006
203894 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:11 pm to
quote:

Go hang out at a Chemo clinic. Watch fathers and mother's sitting next to their dying teen-aged son's and daughters. You'll be thankful for what you have and understand why you have no real reason for being depressed.



WHOA... I have said the same thing about St. Judes.... If you are depressed... Go there for just an hour and you won't seem to think you have it so bad... There are kids there that are much braver than I will ever be.........
Posted by TheWalrus
Member since Dec 2012
40887 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:15 pm to
Everyone suggesting a different medication need to realize people react differently. I tried a bunch before I found the right combination. Risperdal, which is typically an antipsychotic, basically saved me from OCD that had me barely functioning at one point.
Posted by Halftrack
The Wild Blue Yonder
Member since Apr 2015
2763 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:23 pm to
Our society encourages a hamster-wheel mentality. It is very depressing and often non supportive. Good luck to you.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30575 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:31 pm to
I've got Lupus and have a few problems with it. One of my Rheumatologist in Dallas was married to an Oncologist. They shared an office for a while. When I'd go there, I'd see what I described and realize I not only didn't have it so bad, I actually had it pretty good.

Visiting people or volunteering at a hospital can be therapeutic.
Posted by Lucky5150
B.S.L.
Member since Jun 2016
1557 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:39 pm to
Go home Rainbow Rump Ranger.
Posted by Alahunter
Member since Jan 2008
90739 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:42 pm to
Sometimes drink. Went skydiving. Other assorted high risk or seemingly high risk activities. Just something to make ya feel alive.
Posted by I am GLORIOUS
On Tanden's Pond
Member since Oct 2016
3128 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:42 pm to
I'm with you, man. I actually took off a day today because I felt so depressed and crappy. Sometimes I look at my life and wonder what happened. My daughter is all grown up. I'll never pick her up again, or rub her back to help her fall asleep, or take her to the zoo. It's like, what's left from here? Grow old and die, I guess.

As far as Paxil goes, I've taken it for years, at various doses, and it hasn't helped much. I wouldn't recommend Paxil or any other antidepressants because once you start they're extremely difficult to get off of.
This post was edited on 10/24/16 at 6:45 pm
Posted by OMLandshark
Member since Apr 2009
109706 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:43 pm to
quote:

Go hang out at a Chemo clinic. Watch fathers and mother's sitting next to their dying teen-aged son's and daughters. You'll be thankful for what you have and understand why you have no real reason for being depressed.



You don't understand depression. Truly depressed people don't have an "off switch" and often don't think the way you describe. They look at what is happening to the children and think of the world as even more depressing. Yes, logic will tell depressed people that I am better off than a kid dying of cancer or someone living in a tent city in India, but that's not a positive thought. That is negative in its connotation towards someone else.

Volunteering to help sick kids helps I'm sure since you feel like you're making the world a better place, but going to a chemo clinic and watching I don't think would cheer up anyone with true depression. It is gradual to get out of it. You've mentally fallen off a cliff face, and you can't magically transport yourself up by doing one thing. You have to build up to it and climb the wall.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8427 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 6:46 pm to
Lots of flogging the dolphin and pounding booze. Seems to be effective antidepressant for me.
Posted by chinese58
NELA. after 30 years in Dallas.
Member since Jun 2004
30575 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:31 pm to
I only read his OP and was replying to it. He didn't paint a very depressing scenario there.

The only reason I posted is because doing what I described really has jarred me out of thinking I had a miserable life a couple of times. I didn't go either time to intentionally get over my feelings, but both times it really helped.

Maybe finding an organization that helps less fortunate families fix up a house or something could be a little step for him. Helping someone improve their situation might make him feel like he's contributing to society. If he has a job, hes paying taxes, that helps a lot of people too.

He has worth and shouldn't feel like he doesn't.
Posted by Boo Krewe
Member since Apr 2015
9810 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:33 pm to
ive found dogs help
Posted by Monticello
Member since Jul 2010
16197 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:36 pm to
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But I'm still just "meh, what the point of it all?"

quote:

I'm just existing.

quote:

Anybody else ever feel like this. If so, what did you do?


Yes, and what got me over it was realizing that "existing" is the point of it all. We no longer see "existing" as a challenge because of the comforts of the modern world. Do something that physically challenges you...like go backpacking alone in the mountains for 2 weeks. "Just existing" will take on a new meaning for you and you won't take existing for granted anymore.
Posted by OweO
Plaquemine, La
Member since Sep 2009
114123 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:44 pm to
Vitamin D is something you can look into. Try to get more sunlight if possible. What about Xanax? Also exercise releases something in your brain that helps. Be aware of your surroundings. Like someone mentioned, don't listen to depressing music. I always like to kick on some rap or something heavy.. that makes me feel good.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68514 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:49 pm to
You need to find a new challenge in life
Posted by Alahunter
Member since Jan 2008
90739 posts
Posted on 10/24/16 at 7:50 pm to
quote:

don't listen to depressing music


sometimes, its therapeutic in a weird way
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