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re: Question to OT about an old flame
Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:19 am to NWTS_
Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:19 am to NWTS_
Your friend has set precedent that it is OK for you each to bang the other ones girlfriend. He gave you the green light to hit it by hitting it when she was yours. Your current GF is probably his side piece.
Oh yeah, your current GF is not that great or you would not be thinking of an old ex. She is probably adequate, but not "The one."
Next time your friend goes on a trip call your ex and say "Let's get drunk." Her answer will tell you if it is available to stretch.
Oh yeah, your current GF is not that great or you would not be thinking of an old ex. She is probably adequate, but not "The one."
Next time your friend goes on a trip call your ex and say "Let's get drunk." Her answer will tell you if it is available to stretch.
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Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:20 am to NWTS_
You're the back up. She keeping you stringed along just in case. If she's engaged, she's proably rolling thoughts in her head about what if and old flings and cold feet, etc...
Get a steady girlfriend and bring her around a lot and ignore the old flame and your buddys fiance will just about lose her mind.
Since she's engaged to your friend, it's up to you whether or not you break guy code and bang her behind his back. Which it sounds like you easily could do. Just remember, if she's the type of girl to keep a guy on the back burner it won't be any different with you. And if you're the type of guy to shatter trust with a friend for some pussy you're probably not worth the time it took me to type this anyway.
Get a steady girlfriend and bring her around a lot and ignore the old flame and your buddys fiance will just about lose her mind.
Since she's engaged to your friend, it's up to you whether or not you break guy code and bang her behind his back. Which it sounds like you easily could do. Just remember, if she's the type of girl to keep a guy on the back burner it won't be any different with you. And if you're the type of guy to shatter trust with a friend for some pussy you're probably not worth the time it took me to type this anyway.
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 8:21 am
Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:24 am to CelticDog
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frigging convert. what is there to it?
Jews don't respect converts like other religions do. Converts are basically second-class citizens. The good thing is that male converts are slightly more respected than female converts because the children of male converts (assuming the spouse in Jewish) can still be technically Jewish (Jewishness is passed on through the mother) and thus could be rabbis. A female Jewish convert is never truly respected because her children would not be Jews and cannot be rabbis. She will always be seen as a shiksa.
Also, the conversion process in Judaism is pretty lengthy and not for the feint of heart. It's even more involved than RCIA for Catholics.
This post was edited on 7/28/15 at 8:26 am
Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:27 am to NWTS_
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Sometimes when we have conversations her body language is more friendly than it is with other people
What are you waiting for clearly she wants you to PIIHB?
Posted on 7/28/15 at 8:32 am to NewIberiaHaircut
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Dear diary,
Today I cried like a bitch and wrote a story that was way too long for the OT.
With your username coupled with that post... I can only say one man was never meant to attain such greatness.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 9:08 am to NWTS_
Sure she wants to screw you but if there was anything real between y'all there wouldn't have been that lull in communication when summer started before she went abroad. Leave it alone. Lingering on it is desperate.
Why is your buddy pussyfooting around with her after 8 years. shite or get off the pot.
Why is your buddy pussyfooting around with her after 8 years. shite or get off the pot.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 9:24 am to NWTS_
Okay... here is the advice of an oldster. Please take it.
1. Realize first that your relationship with this woman is toxic to future relationships you may have with others. Best to move on.
2. Ego-stroke for you: guess what? She still wants you. That's great, man. Pat yourself on the back. But guess what else? There will be many instances to come in your life where someone will want you, or you will want someone else... and it either can't or shouldn't happen. You have to be mature about it. Learn to love yourself more, and you will find you don't need the desire of others to validate your view of yourself. Check that ego, brother.
3. Your "good friend" swiped a good girl you were interested in right out from under your nose. This is not friendly behavior. This is the behavior of someone who puts himself before you. Don't take advice from him anymore. You should treat yourself better than to maintain relationships with people who act against your self-interest.
Bottom line: you need a new circle of friends. Let these connections wither and die.
1. Realize first that your relationship with this woman is toxic to future relationships you may have with others. Best to move on.
2. Ego-stroke for you: guess what? She still wants you. That's great, man. Pat yourself on the back. But guess what else? There will be many instances to come in your life where someone will want you, or you will want someone else... and it either can't or shouldn't happen. You have to be mature about it. Learn to love yourself more, and you will find you don't need the desire of others to validate your view of yourself. Check that ego, brother.
3. Your "good friend" swiped a good girl you were interested in right out from under your nose. This is not friendly behavior. This is the behavior of someone who puts himself before you. Don't take advice from him anymore. You should treat yourself better than to maintain relationships with people who act against your self-interest.
Bottom line: you need a new circle of friends. Let these connections wither and die.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 9:51 am to NWTS_
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No pics.
Story goes: In college I met a girl and we hit it off. Hooked up a couple times, and there was genuinely something there, as we both openly liked one another,but then summer hit and school was let out. We sparsely spoke during the summer, but then she went aboard with one of my really good friends.
They end up hooking up abroad in Prague, to much of my sadness, but my buddy straight up confessed to it and told me right after it happened. I asked him if it was just a one time thing, and he said yeah and that it was unlikely to happen again.
Well it happened again, they hooked up and it kinda tore at me but I respect him as a friend and man for telling me, and they both ended up genuinely loving one another. Theyve been dating ever since, and I believe (im not sure) that I was the last guy she liked before her to be husband. They are both great people and they are now (8 years later) engaged. It took me sometime to get over it back in college, but I eventually did and I see it now as something that happened for the best. I am happy for them (people make mistakes. its how you deal with it), and hes actually someone I go to for my own current relationship advice.
Well I mention this because back when I was a dick in college, we were all out drunk once, and the gal and I were talking, and I asked her if she had a chance to go back, would she have liked to have officially dated me, and she said yes, with no hesitation. I actually went on to date one of her friends, but I never got her seal of affirmation for that relationship. Which brings me to this.
So ive caught her gazing at me a couple of times in the years after our ordeal, and after we all moved on maturely. Sometimes when we have conversations her body language is more friendly than it is with other people, but she is flirtous by nature. Its nothing overtly direct, but we also have a history of (un)finished business. I do feel uncomfortable speaking to her at times as I dont want an suppressed feelings I may have for her (I dont know of any) to arise and become apparent. She'll send me direct snapchats alot, none of which are sexual or anything. Just her out and about with my good buddy. I hardly send any to her, but she always sends them to me.
Is there a possibility that there is something still there (I have moved on and have a great little deal now and dont wish to go back in time)? Has this happened to anyone else? Does she just consider me to be a good friend? I feel like had college not let out for the summer that year, things may have been different, at least for the rest of our college experience together.
Jesus Christ, dude. There is one and only one thing you must do:
• Stop any and all communication with her and this buddy of yours. Repeat: Stop any and all communication with her and this buddy of yours. Tell them you can't handle things as they are, and since you want happiness for them AND yourself, you're bowing out for good.
• Don't respond to any of their offers to continue whatever your relationship is. Your decision to move on is final.
• Forget bout these people and look for some happiness for yourself. They've found their happiness, now it's time for you to do the same.
• Again, drop these people from your life. Get moving.
Yeah, I know it's tough,
Posted on 7/28/15 at 9:54 am to TigerPanzer
Don't tell OP what to do. He's got a good mind a firm handle on things.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:00 am to NWTS_
If troll nice. If real go play in traffic you sorry arse limp noodle.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:01 am to biglego
I got several saucy nuggets for you my OP Friend.
1) the dude has been your alpha for years. time for you to flip the script, he even has you bragging about his relationship skills and thinking him stealing your woman has been for your best.
2) you need to decide how much you value your current relationship. Is it more important than fricking this girl because i guarantee you, you'll be lying on your death bed and you won't be thinking about your wife, you'll be thinking about why you didn't frick this girl
3) you need to have a drunk chat with her. Tell her you had a dream about the two of you. You are embarrassed about the dream of course but all of you were out drinking one night. Your buddy got too drunk and ya'll had to put him in bed. you and the girl proceeded to kiss passionately in the kitchen and then she pulled her panties down and told you to frick her against the fridge. don't leave out any details. tell her that the dream sex was incredible. then laugh it off and walk away.
4) make her beg you for that dick, she'll be coming for it soon.
1) the dude has been your alpha for years. time for you to flip the script, he even has you bragging about his relationship skills and thinking him stealing your woman has been for your best.
2) you need to decide how much you value your current relationship. Is it more important than fricking this girl because i guarantee you, you'll be lying on your death bed and you won't be thinking about your wife, you'll be thinking about why you didn't frick this girl
3) you need to have a drunk chat with her. Tell her you had a dream about the two of you. You are embarrassed about the dream of course but all of you were out drinking one night. Your buddy got too drunk and ya'll had to put him in bed. you and the girl proceeded to kiss passionately in the kitchen and then she pulled her panties down and told you to frick her against the fridge. don't leave out any details. tell her that the dream sex was incredible. then laugh it off and walk away.
4) make her beg you for that dick, she'll be coming for it soon.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:20 am to Breesus
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if you're the type of guy to shatter trust with a friend for some pussy you're probably not worth the time it took me to type this anyway.
OP is an Aggie....
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:23 am to NWTS_
Sounds to me like you haven't moved on
And she's a tease
And she's a tease
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:28 am to CptBengal
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OP is an Aggie....
Oh. So it's his brother and sister?
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:42 am to biglego
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Don't tell OP what to do. He's got a good mind a firm handle on things.
I disagree. The man is plainly ambivalent, and this will continue to harm him as long as he refuses to make the necessary change/s.
In a similar situation, I had the good fortune of being offered a job far away from the woman I loved and the man she loved. Talk about Divine Providence. I took the job, never saw or heard from the couple again, and now I have positive feelings about each of them and truly hope they found happiness, either together or individually.
I should hope for such a healthy resolution to the OP's situation. His present solution–mucking along in the status quo–is no solution at all.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 10:45 am to NWTS_
You might as well go transgender.
Posted on 7/28/15 at 11:39 am to Chad504boy
Now that I recall, we actually hates my current girlfriend. They dont like each other and whenever they are around each other, the old girl refuses to speak to her. I dont know why.
My current gf is much much prettier than her and is more succesful
My current gf is much much prettier than her and is more succesful
Posted on 7/28/15 at 11:42 am to lsusteve1
I moved on, I really did. For my buddy, she is a catch. For me, I have had a more success with the ladies and have been involved with much more attractive women (including her better looking friends) than he has so losing her wasnt something I couldnt rebound from, per se
Posted on 7/28/15 at 12:53 pm to NWTS_
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For me, I have had a more success with the ladies and have been involved with much more attractive women (including her better looking friends) than he has so losing her wasnt something I couldnt rebound from, per se
So, why not leave those 2 alone and stay with "better" options?
Posted on 7/28/15 at 2:25 pm to lsusteve1
I am, and there is no hesitation on my part. I just wanted to see if anyone had been through this and how they navigated through it.
Her not liking my current girlfriend really doesnt make sense. Like she wont even acknowledge her.
Her not liking my current girlfriend really doesnt make sense. Like she wont even acknowledge her.
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