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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...

Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:53 pm to
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29721 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:53 pm to
Would be into it if my wife were. She's pretty vanilla though.

To the op, My advice would be to start slow.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:54 pm to
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4- I'm my opinion, the marriage vows were not about sex, but the intimacy and the emotional connection. The wife and I will still keep that.




You really think you are gonna keep the same level of intimacy and emotional closeness to your wife.....after you've invited another person to share that?


You are married....sex isn't just sex when you are married...it's part of the emotional connection you share with your wife. It's important to keep that connection with your wife.



Keep telling yourself that nothing can go wrong though. Come back and post when yall are getting divorced.


Posted by SmackoverHawg
Member since Oct 2011
27329 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:54 pm to
Sometimes it works out fine.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7126 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:55 pm to
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If you're going to bring in a second woman, I hope you're ok with your wife bringing in a second man. Fair is fair.


It's her idea to bring in the second woman. I've told her under no circumstance will there ever be another man and she states she doesn't want one.
Posted by LT
The City of St. George
Member since May 2008
5151 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:58 pm to
A buddies wife made the suggestion. She's now single and my buddy is married to the third with a new baby.


Tread carefully.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37317 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:58 pm to
You just assume do it now then. Her mind is made up that she wants some pussy.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:59 pm to
Wow. Your wife is attracted to and wants to frick another woman. And you don't realize what a problem it is

I'm sorry
Posted by MondayMorningMarch
Pumping Sunshine. She's cute!
Member since Dec 2006
16847 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:01 pm to
What's the problem?
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85001 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:01 pm to
Does anybody think it's worse that he has kids?
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29721 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:01 pm to
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Wow. Your wife is attracted to and wants to frick another woman. And you don't realize what a problem it is I'm sorry


I thought all girls were lesbo...unless porn has been lying to me all these years!
Posted by MondayMorningMarch
Pumping Sunshine. She's cute!
Member since Dec 2006
16847 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:02 pm to
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Does anybody think it's worse that he has kids?


Missed that part. Now, the train is off the tracks.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7126 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:02 pm to
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Does anybody think it's worse that he has kids?


We've been married for 10 years
Posted by Robin Masters
Birmingham
Member since Jul 2010
29721 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:03 pm to
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We've been married for 10 years


I think it's awesome dude. Of course I'm not uptight judge mental or insecure in myself so I may be in the minority here.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 9:04 pm
Posted by Festus
With Skillet
Member since Nov 2009
85001 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:03 pm to
How old are the kids?
Posted by Mulat
Avalon Bch, FL
Member since Sep 2010
17517 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:04 pm to
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But, what if the wife is the one who makes the suggestion?




Sorry to hear it for ya
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:05 pm to
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It's over, you just don't realize it.



no shyt
Posted by tom
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2007
8156 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:06 pm to
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I know how y'all say it could ruin a marriage to bring in another woman to the bedroom, even if the wife is in to it. But, what if the wife is the one who makes the suggestion?


It is already over.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:07 pm to
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Does anybody think it's worse that he has kids?




Yup. He's willing to risk a stable home for his children so he can get his rocks off.




I mean...you hear of couples in open marriages and they somehow make it work. I just don't think that many people are really wired that way.


Point is...you don't know how it will affect your marriage until you actually do it. And then the damage is done and you can't take it back. Why risk it?




Paige...yeah the fact that she is suggesting a woman she has already made out with in the past...HUGE RED FLAG but OP is thinking with his dick clearly right now and not his brain.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:08 pm to
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It is already over.

I guess my marriage ended 15 years ago and I didn't notice.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124336 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:09 pm to
Who cares what anyone thinks man

Go through with the threesome

I passed on one last weekend because I was tired. Kinda regretting it now because one of the chicks was married and was willing to cheat on her husband
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