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Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:35 pm to
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25429 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:35 pm to
Need an update OP
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:35 pm to
I wonder if OP would be comfortable if the wife brought up bringing a second man into the bedroom. Funny how we justify one and not the other.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:36 pm to
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Why is it such a difficult concept to grasp that when you agree to marry someone, you agree to have sex with them and only them from that point forward? Good lord people.

I got married down at the courthouse. They skipped that part.
Posted by foshizzle
Washington DC metro
Member since Mar 2008
40599 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:37 pm to
quote:

what if the wife is the one who makes the suggestion?


It means she isn't into you and is looking for a way to legitimize the lesbian relationship she has had on the side for several months.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:39 pm to
Ask coco and prom

I can't imagine being cool with my husband hooking up with another woman.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:40 pm to
Ding ding ding.
Posted by white perch
the bright, happy side of hell
Member since Apr 2012
7127 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:41 pm to
1- there will never be another man involved

2- she has the woman in mind, they've made out before but that's all (as far as I know)

3- it hasn't happened yet because these things take time to set up (children and such)

4- I'm my opinion, the marriage vows were not about sex, but the intimacy and the emotional connection. The wife and I will still keep that.
Posted by 4LSU2
Member since Dec 2009
37318 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:41 pm to
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I can't imagine being cool with my husband hooking up with another woman.


DAFUQ?

Aren't you officially gay these days?
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:43 pm to
I'm bi. But one or the other. Never mix the two
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53205 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:43 pm to
I'm a traditionalist, but I will say the swingers in that recent thread made a compelling case about love and sex being completely different things. Go for it. A lot of guys would kill for what your wife is proposing.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:43 pm to
Literally countless things can go wrong.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:45 pm to
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Go for it. A lot of guys would kill for what your wife is proposing.




Which is a reason why more married couples get divorced than don't these days.
This post was edited on 6/13/14 at 8:46 pm
Posted by Melvin
Member since Apr 2011
23535 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:46 pm to
quote:

I'm my opinion, the marriage vows were not about sex
Posted by tigerpimpbot
Chairman of the Pool Board
Member since Nov 2011
66918 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:46 pm to
You owe it to your wife to make her fantasies come true.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:46 pm to
quote:


4- I'm my opinion, the marriage vows were not about sex, but the intimacy and the emotional connection. The wife and I will still keep that.

That's how we are. And we've outlasted most of the married couples we know who gave us shite about it. Whatever works for you and your relationship.
Posted by MondayMorningMarch
Pumping Sunshine. She's cute!
Member since Dec 2006
16847 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:47 pm to
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Mattwells90


Are you married?
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:48 pm to
quote:

That's how we are. And we've outlasted most of the married couples we know who gave us shite about it. Whatever works for you and your relationship.



Legit question, it doesn't bother you that your wife comes home and lays next to you right after some other guy just pulled out?
Posted by Sentrius
Fort Rozz
Member since Jun 2011
64757 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:49 pm to
If you're going to bring in a second woman, I hope you're ok with your wife bringing in a second man. Fair is fair.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:49 pm to
quote:

Legit question,

Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124336 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 8:50 pm to
The older I get the less I care about trust, commitment, being faithful, etc.
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