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re: Question about bringing in a second woman...

Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:12 pm to
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:12 pm to
I think it truly depends on the couple. Some people are very open-minded regarding sex. For some, sex is sex, and emotional connections are formed from other aspects. I think if the couple truly can handle the sex/love separation (most can't), then it's fine. Problem is, most think they will be fine with it, then they realize they aren't. I dunno, open mind, lots of communication and forgiveness if necessary, and enjoy the ride.
Posted by Jack Daniel
In the bottle
Member since Feb 2013
25429 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:12 pm to
When you gonna show us the homemade porn that was stolen then posted on the Internet?
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:15 pm to
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For some, sex is sex, and emotional connections are formed from other aspects.

This. In my mind it's strange to put so much emphasis on sex. Sex is just fun for me. Our emotional bond isn't defined by it.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:16 pm to
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When you gonna show us the homemade porn that was stolen then posted on the Internet?

Hell no.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:16 pm to
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Problem is, most think they will be fine with it, then they realize they aren't.



Yeah that was my point.


I realize some couples are truly ok with this. I certainly can't personally understand that thinking, but realize they make it work and are happy.
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:17 pm to
quote:

In my mind it's strange to put so much emphasis on sex. Sex is just fun for me. Our emotional bond isn't defined by it.


it'll take you 25 years to figure out what really happened if you do it. blee me
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:18 pm to
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it'll take you 25 years to figure out what really happened if you do it. blee me

Was this to the OP? I already did it.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:19 pm to
What was that movie, Indecent Proposal? A large sum of money for a one night sand with your spouse. Who would agree to that?
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:19 pm to
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Was this to the OP? I already did it.


oops, was for OP.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:20 pm to
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This. In my mind it's strange to put so much emphasis on sex. Sex is just fun for me. Our emotional bond isn't defined by it.




People seriously are uneducated about the chemical reactions and bonding that occurs in people's brain when they partake in intercourse. In particular women are affected by those chemicals. If you don't feel anything after intercourse, I truly don't know why that is. Countless studies however show that sex is not "just sex"
Posted by Tiger Ryno
#WoF
Member since Feb 2007
103014 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:20 pm to
If your wife suggested this with all due respect your wife is trash and your marriage is over.
Posted by DelU249
Austria
Member since Dec 2010
77625 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:21 pm to
you know that song blurred lines?


the lines aren't so blurred.
Posted by Walt OReilly
Poplarville, MS
Member since Oct 2005
124336 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:22 pm to
Sounds like you're just a tad bit jealous
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
128950 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:22 pm to
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People seriously are uneducated about the chemical reactions and bonding that occurs in people's brain when they partake in intercourse. In particular women are affected by those chemicals. If you don't feel anything after intercourse, I truly don't know why that is. Countless studies however show that sex is not "just sex"



Yup. Your body releases hormones during sex that make you feel more close and trusting to your sexual partner.
Posted by Paige
Vice President of the OT
Member since Oct 2010
84748 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:23 pm to
damn Walt. It sucks to be you. You have the worst luck
Posted by LSU1NSEC
Member since Sep 2007
17243 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:23 pm to
if it was my wife - knowing what I know now - I'd tell her to go it on her own and leave me completely out of it - don't even tell me about it
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
35476 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:23 pm to
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If you don't feel anything after intercourse, I truly don't know why that is.

I don't know, I like to have sex with attractive women. Crazy I guess.
Posted by Bunk Moreland
Member since Dec 2010
53205 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:23 pm to
Ryno, there are 3-5 marriages on here that are supastrong and a couple make a decent case for swinging.
Posted by liz18lsu
Naples, FL
Member since Feb 2009
17302 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:24 pm to
So, how about all those godly men of the Old Testament who were banging multiple women? Trashy? These are consenting adults. If they think they can handle it, why call his wife trash? They would call you close-minded and judgmental.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 9:24 pm to
Not jealous at all. I personally respect marriage and don't gets pleasure from banging some girl another man loves and is committed to. It's basically stealing to me.
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