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re: Opinion: My married longtime ex is texting me A LOT

Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:22 am to
Posted by HotTakes
Member since Sep 2021
1498 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:22 am to
So… you’re “that guy.”
Posted by Loup
Ferriday
Member since Apr 2019
11549 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:24 am to
Life hasn't played out like she wanted it to. She sees you happy with somebody else and wants to frick that up for you. I'd cut all contact.

I get the nostalgia part of it. There might be a lot of other things from that time in your life that you miss and are associating with her because she was around.
This post was edited on 12/26/21 at 6:32 am
Posted by Dawgholio
Bugtussle
Member since Oct 2015
13047 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:32 am to
Since she’s 1000 miles away and you aren’t getting laid then don’t leave the girl you’re with.
Posted by Nguyener
Kame House
Member since Mar 2013
20603 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 6:54 am to
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I’m with a great girl who I love but at the same time this other girl is the standard by which I’ve always compared other girls. Even though she’s married and I never texted or spoke to her once I would still take a bullet for this girl without even a thought this is that one girl that every guy has that changes everything.


Are you sure you’re not gay?
Posted by shawnlsu
Member since Nov 2011
23682 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:10 am to
"New phone. Who dis?"
Posted by Naked Bootleg
Member since Jul 2021
1855 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:12 am to
You've both grown a lot since then so the mental picture you may have of things immediately being like the good ol' times isn't accurate. Two things could happen: One, you have amazing makeup sex for a while but within two months you're realizing this isn't what you thought it would be. Or two, you start over from the beginning, take it slow, get to know each other and build a new relationship that may have a chance.
Posted by iwantacooler
Member since Aug 2017
2201 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:17 am to
Her husband has her phone and he’s the one texting.
Posted by Icansee4miles
Trolling the Tickfaw
Member since Jan 2007
29305 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:17 am to
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snuggle


…and Netflix.
Posted by Chingon Ag
Member since Nov 2018
2851 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:28 am to
quote:

I’m with a great girl who I love but…


I know this is fake but I will play along and say you are an a-hole for stringing along the current girlfriend. Break it off with her and allow her to quit wasting time so she can find a real man.
This post was edited on 12/26/21 at 7:29 am
Posted by BR92
Member since Apr 2021
852 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:48 am to
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Break up her marriage to assert dominance. Then when you go to stay at her families place during the holidays sleep until noon and have her serve you eggs and bacon in bed.

That’s the only play here.


There is one more thing.

Don't forget to leave an upper decker in the family toilet right before you leave.
Posted by CrappyPants
Member since Apr 2021
716 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:51 am to
You are playing with fire and will get burned. Stop responding to her. NOW
Posted by kciDAtaE
Member since Apr 2017
15955 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:51 am to
Dude. It’s your first love. She married someone else. Get over it and move on
Posted by willythedemon11
Member since Aug 2007
255 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:52 am to
You should have lots of sex with her with no condom.
Posted by shoelessjoe
Member since Jul 2006
9934 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 7:56 am to
Only logical thing to do is tell the ex to meet you at a motel room if she agrees to it, show your girlfriend her response. If she is ok with it have a threesome.
This post was edited on 12/26/21 at 7:59 am
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4374 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:00 am to
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How does a "Fight" end it all?


Maybe the fight was over him doing her best friend
Posted by tgrmeat
Member since Sep 2020
4374 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:02 am to
But seriously the correct answer was on the first page. Step 1- ask for nudes.
Posted by Mr Clean
New Iberia
Member since Aug 2006
49693 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:05 am to
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Even though she’s married and I never texted or spoke to her once I would still take a bullet for this girl without even a thought so I’m extremely conflicted


Go away
Posted by udtiger
Over your left shoulder
Member since Nov 2006
99409 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:10 am to
Run away
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
64948 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:12 am to
quote:

I’m with a great girl who I love but…


If OP truly were in love with this great girl there would be no “but” at the end of this statement.
Posted by sportsaddit68
Hammond
Member since Sep 2008
5881 posts
Posted on 12/26/21 at 8:13 am to
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and you're not a real man unless you have at least 2 restraining orders out on you


3. Gotta take in account Inflation.
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